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About HTSSH
Well,here we are. A submissive male seeking a Female Led Relationship.
One very comfortable in the vanilla world. Which translates into your vanilla friends will never know my position in your life if you choose for them not to know.
Well traveled,well versed in any number of things that at this very moment may be of interest to you. Some of them may be passions you enjoy in your everyday life.
As to the Kink side for lack of a better word at the moment is much more varied than I can list here. Some of the topics you can check in a profile I've done/had done to me/or watched others do or have done to them.
I first thought I would list them here. Then I thought, from experience I know if I do list everything I have experience in and have experienced my in box will be jammed with replies from those that just want to complain/or talk about/ask questions about/want to know how it felt etc,etc.
Which would be a waste of my time. The time I could spend looking for her and getting to know her.She is out there. I'm not sure she is here on CM.My experience here so far has been a large number of people some I'm sure are not females having not a clue as to what this life is really about.
Yes i am submissive.And yes i will submit.
My head and thoughts are not in the clouds I'm very well grounded. You should be as well.
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I am only interested in a real life relationship not looking for a play partner. I am seeking that perfect balance of D/s and vanilla |
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You may not know what you need.You may know what you want. Even that you may not be sure of.You really need a person that can read you and know very quickly what it is you need.It is easy to bark orders. You are expected to do that... after all, every book written about how to be a dominant says so.But,do you really want to follow the path that is so well worn. Or do you really want to be served.Do you want a life that you haven't dreamed of yet. Oh yes, you have dreamed. You know you are different and you want it your way.Nothing wrong with that.However,some of your restrictions may well cause you to miss the very person you need the most.
It is not unusual for people to choose the wrong people to join together with happens all the time.Why? It is easy to answer that question. Because you have it all set as to what you must have and the way it must be.If the person does not fit within those requirements that person is out never to be thought of again.
A dominant person is not one that controls/tortures/humiliates,another. A dominant is one that chooses the right person and lets them serve in the way they will learn as they get to know the dominant better.All the other fore mentioned things are the icing on the cake.The things that keep it from being boring to the dominant and the one owned.
To be truly owned and to truly own one must allow the person to become closer than any spouse would ever be.The one owned will come to know you as no other ever has.And once they do they will know your fears/needs/ wants, and they will know you are not really that dominant after all.
Most here are just looking for the plastic fake fetish side of the kink and are not really looking for a true Dominant/slave relationship.
I have been in those fake relationships with those that were not really a dominant.They just wanted to be in control because they had been hurt.And if they were in total control and made the slave feel less than they... then they would never be hurt again.
Which is not true. Even though it seems like a good idea when you think about it.
The question needs to be answered. “What is it you need.” stop the thoughts of cock and ball torture and any of the other things that make you wet between the legs.
And think about the long term. One does not serve and submit to another if they do not really want to.Maybe for a time,yes.For a long time/lifetime NO
So ask yourself why would a person want to submit to me.
You don’t want those that just want the kink. You need a person that will be totally devoted to you... that can not happen over night.
Most profiles and the things you say in your profile will only bring to you the very people you say you DO NOT WANT.
So WHY would I want to serve and submit to you.
It is and can’t be just because you say you are dominant or have decided to attach another title of some sort before your name.
That you have photos of your toy collection on your profile why would I want to submit just because of your toys. I can buy those myself. So why submit to you?
That you have photos of your legs in stockings and your feet is sexy heels. (that would do it for most weak males)But really... you don’t want those types of males.Some of you even say so in your profile, yet you still cater to that type you say you DO NOT WANT.
If you have read this far and some of what I have said here strikes a cord within you I would like a chance to talk with you.
If you have read this far and it has in some way pissed you off.
Then maybe we should not talk. As you may not be the one I would submit to.
One never knows. |
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I find it difficult to feel really serious about some of those who have contacted me so far.
So many things you list in your profile and tell me to do even before we get to know each other.
I'm here looking. I'm not your slave or your boi bitch.
I will not obey and call you mistress just because you tell me to.
AND...I WILL NOT SEND MONEY.
If you have to have a males money then you are not much of a dominant. |
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This is not a search for fantasy fulfillment in a role playing relation as you play the role I need, a role that I have read about in a BDSM/Fem Dom book or a I have written that you must follow.
I search for a Female Lead relationship in a real life setting not living in a fantasy.
This is not a lifestyle it is and for me a way of life. I'm an Alpha male in every way yet I will
submit. But only to one, and to her I will submit fully. |
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Writing style is also a matter of personal preference. Some people tend to write in long, compound sentences, while other people keep their sentences short and concise. Some people like colorful, emotional language, while others like to stick to concrete terms and facts.Others like myself enjoy the more cryptic style of writing.
Finally, your competence at writing in English will affect your style as well. Generally, the more fluent you are at writing, the more complex and colorful your sentence structure and language will be.
If you are worried more about my style of writing then my submission to you.
We might not be a good match. |
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