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hrl1991

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To all who read this...TAKE TIME TO READ THE ENTIRE THING, PLEASE To start off, I am the type of person where I am 50/50, that is why I am on here as a switch. I can dominate, and do rather enjoy it, however, I find that being submissive is a little more enjoyable and sometimes yields better results. So, here is what I am looking for, and yes, it is a bit unorthodox from what I've seen on this site: I am looking for either a Dominant or a Sub whom I can have a Vanila relationship with. This means that, yes, behind closed doors if we want to live the BDSM lifestyle, that is fine, but there is more to me as a person than BDSM and more to you, I am sure. Now, if all you would like is a short-term arrangement, then that is fine,but please let me know up front. Next: I've noticed on here that people ask for tributes and that is a steaming crock of explative term inserted here. If you don't think so, then fine. I, though, am of the philosophy that this isn't a job: this is something you enjoy doing. For those of you who aren't picking it up (yes, I'm a bit of a jackass in general, it's part of who I am and for some reason, people find how blunt and up-front I am appealing): I WILL NOT GIVE tribute, NOR WILL I ACCEPT tribute. If you want to get me a gift or something like that...that's all fine and dandy, but it's not going to sway my desicion one or the other. I'm on this site to find a like-minded individual(s) who is looking for someone to share with them the thrill of all of this. If you would like to speak to me, feel free. I am more than willing to just sit here and talk to people, seeing as how it is my style. To give you an idea: I used to work in retail, trying to get back into it (retail), going to school to become an English teacher, and I am involved in a campus radio station...so, I've no problem with talking with people. With that said, though, I don't do online and cam relationships. There is something about it that just irritates and bothers me relentlessly. If you must speak to me via cam or something, tell me, but I can't do it as a regular thing...I prefer person to person, or over the phone. Leading me to this: I cannot travel and I cannot relocate, but I can have people over during the day. That isn't usually a problem. So, if you want to know more of what I want and what I'm looking for, there's that wonderful list on the side of my profile...please read that as well. My big things are foot fetish, orgasm control, chastity and CBT (a bit of bot my submissive and dominant side). As for more about me, I love to read and write and enjoy just relaxing at home, watching movies or television and just unwinding. If you have any other questions, just ask and I'll answer. I am new to this and I am young, but do not take my age as a negative. It's truly infuriating. I know what I want and what I am looking for, and age-difference doesn't bother me. To me, we are merely two like-minded people who share a common interest and desire. Ultimately, I would be more comfortable with someone around my age and experience level to learn with, or someone who has experience, but is not older than 35, but as I said before, age is nothing to be sacrificed for compatability.
1/13/2011 3:14:35 PM

Just a little bit of a request for anyone who see's this, view's my profile, etc.: I've noticed this is a common thing on this site, and I finid it a bit vexing, so here it is: if I message and you read the message, be it a yes, no, or even a maybe, please respond. As afore mentioned, it is extremely vexing to send a message and not recieve a reply of some sort.

12/21/2010 11:34:00 AM

Alright, I'll admit that I am new to this site, and I thank those who I have spoken to that have been helping me out with getting aquainted to the site, however, some things need to be known and set straight.

  • I am down here as a sub, and I need to change that. I am more along the lines of a switch. I can be dominant, will be dominant, and occassionaly like to be dominant. I prefer being submissive because it yields, what I feel to be, more interesting results.
  • For all Doms/Dommes out there who are reading this: I get that you are all in to this image of being the "Big Boss" and the man or woman, "On Top," and that is great. If God does exist, or any diety for that matter, then I hope and pray they bless you with all they've got. However, this doesn't mean that you can automatically assert your dominance in the first message. We all have screennames and names, please call us subs by them for the first message, unless told otherwise. It's just a sign of mutual respect and a show of common decency.
  • Finally, I will reassert this, because I don't think I did a good job of this in my profile...my apologies, everyone. I am actively searching a Mistress (still new to the lingo, so, female master) and/or Dominatrix (I know there's an abreviation, but nor entirely certain what it is). I have only done this informally, so yes, I would need training. I am not opposed to the idea of a same-sex master/Dom, however, I would prefer there be someone of the opposite gender involved. If anyone is near the area listed on my profile and can/is willing to travel and looking for a new male sub/slave, let me know.

Much appreciated and happy holidays, folks!

DivMissM
 
 Age: 34
  Florida