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HowItShouldBe

Howitser1
Male Dominant, 31, Wooster, Ohio
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About HowItShouldBe


In a strange world, with struggling, confused, misguided, and bad people, I am one of few good men.  After reading through many profiles, this may not be the site for what I am looking for.  I am not just here for fun, or for sex, or to play games, or to conquer as many women as possible...

I am looking for one special, younger, submissive woman, more on the slender or athletic side.  A life partner.  Someone who gets to know me.  Someone marriage and family-minded, who is impressed with what I have accomplished, and what I would bring to such a relationship. 

In general, I am a nice, friendly, funny, very intelligent, creative, successful, stable, well-balanced, single white male. 

I have thought long and hard about what makes me different from most men that I know.  Here are just a few things...  First I am actually single.  Never married or divorced.  No kids.  No exes hanging out, or strange relationships.  I don't sleep around.  I'm not at all into strip clubs, drinking at bars, or wild parties.  I have a few good friends, both male and female.  I am financially secure.  I own a home and a vacation home.  I don't have any roommates, and tend to be both protective, and distance myself from people who might interfere with a nice, good, family-oriented lifestyle.  I come from a good family myself.  Good, loving, hard-working parents who are still happily married.  And I want that too!  I am dominant in many ways, and yet I am still understanding and open-minded.  I know what I want.  I am protective.  I am a good teacher.  I know how to manage finances.  I am very good at most everything that I do.  I also do not smoke or do drugs.  I am not an alcoholic.  And I am not someone to gamble away our life savings.  And perhaps most importantly, I am both physically and emotionally available.  I am there when you need me.  I am involved in your life.  I will be very involved in our kids' lives. 

See my checked interests for some of what I like to do for fun.

The girl I am looking for should have something to bring to the table too.  After all, I am a good man.  Are you a good woman?  Would you make a good wife?  A good mom?  I am looking for an attractive, single white female, in decent shape, who values marriage and family.  You probably are not the one for me if you are "flakey", sleeping around, playing games, or just wanting to have fun.  You should be nice, and sweet, wanting something good, and willing to work at something good.  You do NOT need to address me as Sir or Master, but you should be communicative and respectful.  Tell me what you are thinking or feeling, and we will do just fine.  And if you change your mind, as we are getting to know each other, I would appreciate an explanation as to WHY you would quit talking with me, rather than a girl who just disappears unexpectedly. 

Still with me?  :)

Sexually, I am passionate, curious, and very sensual.  When I want you, I have to have you!  No excuses or waiting!  I can be very gentle, but I can also be aggressive, and forceful if necessary.  I enjoy variety and fun.  Roleplay is nice.  I imagine a daddy/daughter relationship with a bit of a kinky side.  I like to surprise you at times.  I also like you to know what to expect, and to be very happy.  I LOVE kissing, touching, masturbating, and sex when I am with the right woman. 


If you're interested, please say "hi", and tell me what you like about my profile, and I will gladly send you a photo or two.
I am less impressed by the experience you have coming into a relationship.? I am more impressed by the experiences we will share together which make our bond stronger.
I don't suppose there are any attractive virgins here, in decent shape?
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