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Male Submissive, 34, yonkers, New York
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Dominant Couple, 50, Brooklyn, New York
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About HOTnycLady
Update: I'm in a real relationship but seeking to be shared with a m/f couple.... I'm in need of a woman!! My lover just likes to be there for my saftey while you'd work me over and use me. However, pls read my info below to see if we might be a match..
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??I'm? finally doing what I desire which is to mostly be submissive (NOT a slave). these behaviors are inside of me.
?I have complex limits for the master which includes: very little pain as I've got a low tolerance, no blood or fluid transitions inside of me, no daddy playing, no animal, no baby play, no masks, no recordings or photo's at all, nor any poor judgments which affect my safety.
I'm not someone who conveys my submissiveness to the outside world, nor do I want to live that lifestyle full-time. I just desire to play with my dominant partners in the fashions chosen for me behind closed doors.
I would eventually be able to listen and obey fully, be on display, be humiliated, be told to do different sexual desires for my master and/or his friends both male or female, be informed to wear certain outfits he gives me, be slightly tied up, made to wait and/or beg for different things, learn to control myself to only cum when demanded, allow the master to play with me in sex clubs and slightly fondled in public but not having the actions noticed. However, if I am to be "fully collared" that will come over time and with trust. I've begun and ready to continue on my submissive journey's.
Interested??? If so, please tell me why you'd consider communications with me as a new sub and why I should consider you both over some other email....? Please be between the ages of 25-46 thanks
**** Warning: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects -- You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and in future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. ***
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______ Suggestions to seek those in our lifestyle on line sites (Collarme & Alt.... What else???)
If in person in NY/NJ/CT what places or clubs exist (paddles & ???)
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Isn't anyone still seeking a real relationship with a bit a kink in the bedroom? I'm personally not into the one nighters or NSA and feel the connection with one person is needed to fully enjoy sexual activities of all kinds.?
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J
I am at this point in my life as years ago my boyfriend would hardley have sex with me. After, trying everything I could dress up as, think of doing or asking to include x or y; it still failed. I didn't see the signs that he wanted me to be more submissive to him, masterbate for him, dress up in latex, put lots of black eye liner on, go to gothic clubs, have him sit on my face, let him dildo me even when it was uncomfortable, and he had showed me the movie the secretary. All these signs I failed to place together. Regardless the relationship was doomed to fail & when it did he finally told me that he likes more submissive sexual life style. So at that point I had to learn about it so I read on the net and talked to masters and watched movies then wanted some light domination. I realized that some of the things I really liked in the past were submissive in nature, like my mans hands under my skirt at anytime (because he wanted it) or him telling me to suck him (even if I didn't want to it was hot that I did it for his pleasure) or better yet when someone just makes me restrainted in sight, sound movement, etc ( this way I give them full access to do with me as he pleased)... I've begun my journey with being honest with myself as the sights, thoughts or looks of submissive acts or the man doing what he wants with me gets me so wet and gives me the most pleasureable orgasams. My pain limit is low so I am more into the physicalogical side not rough pain.
So what got you started in this kink, lifestyle, etc. (please don't write it's who you are, as that's obvious but how you got to your actions is the answer I would like).
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Movie suggestions to watch on being submissive??
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