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hotnsmart

Female Switch, 36, Baton Rouge, Louisiana
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Currently, I am hiring an open minded, available, committed submissive male between the ages of 30 - 40 years old. Someone who want a Long TERM relationship and surrender his mind and body emotionally and physically. I want a real life submissive, someone who committed to make me happy by obeying me and serving me completely. Someone who takes care of his body, cleans and works out (basically be in a good shape)



I would like to get involved with a submissive male more than a surface level. I am giving the confidence that I have no desire to "beat my sub to death" and before submitting to me, we would begin with limitations. They will clearly state if they will completely and utterly submit to me. They will also clarify their objective in this relationship……eg: do they want to be loved and cherished or just objectification and non-emotional forms of subservience.



I know my sub male is intelligent and have his own thoughts and opinions and I would like them to share with me whenever they want to, however, he shouldn't expect me to take them into priority – also, he shouldn't expect to have the last word either but I will respect and consider what he wants to say and respect his opinion.



At the beginning of the relationship, I want him to establish and agree upon by both of us - his limitations that will be not negotiable. I have no desire to harm or hurt him either physically or emotionally. To me to do so, it will be crossing the line and that is abuse. However, I want my sub male to do ANYTHING for me (I will state if there are some exceptions)..



I want to use my sub male and want him to totally pleasure me – whether he likes it or not. As a dominator I will cherish and value my sub male very much, however if what pleasures me is not something he specifically enjoys or even likes ….he should still do it as long as it is not violating his limitations. As I clear it earlier, violating his limits is not acceptable and considered abuse…..which I will expect him to have with me a serious conversation with me.



I want to be the one and only person who control his body, mind and soul and I can do whatever I desire without lying and harming him. I want to be in his SADIST (incase you do not know what Sadist means, it is: The deriving of sexual gratification or the tendency to derive sexual gratification from inflicting pain or emotional abuse on others.) I totally understand and acknowledge that at the beginning, my submissive male may take him a bit of time for him to submit himself fully to me but with a time and training he should do so….

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