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	I am very new to the bdsm world. I have only had a few encounters; and I already know I don't want anyone extremely sadistic. A good spanking, flogging and riding crop are very alluring. I am open to many things. Just no children, animals or scat. I will be totally honest here and tell you that I am NOT disease-free. I have had hsv since I was 22. I enjoyed 2 marriages with no problems since it went dormant for 22 years. I have only had one outbreak; and that was 3 years ago from stress...I have tried to get on STD sites; but there are no members; and the ones I like are far away...I'm sure I can't be the only one here who has it! lol I just got an AIDS test the first week of Aug 2011; so I have to papers for that. Update June 16, 2012 I need a roommate in Sugar Hill area. Prefer a single Dom. I am actually very old-fashioned but very kinky. I would like a romantic relationship with a man who has the same mindset. Update June 9, 2011 I found this today when researching this lifestyle. I googled "BDSM why?" and a page came up that was very helpful. this I will go by: http://www.xeromag.com/copyright.html Believe it or not, the dynamics of a BDSM relationship are often driven by the submissive, not by the dominant. The submissive sets the limits; the submissive decides what places can and can not be explored; the submissive has the ability to call a halt to the scene. The dominant, in many ways, is simply a facilitator. It's the dominant's job to create a setting where the people involved can explore the submissive's fantasies. Your possible sub

8/19/2011 4:31:28 AM

Hello everyone

Things have changed for me and I have been fucked over by so many Doms that I decided to become a switch...I have already dominated a few men and love it!

Deep down I long to be a good little sub for a Dom. But so far I have encountered these men who are too manipulative, mean; and play games with my head. I am looking for vanilla/traditional outside of the bedroom; and for him to not be too sadistic.

After giving that supposed Dom 7 blowjobs with no reciprocation...And then there's the one who insisted on me taking an AIDS test for 4 months. When I finally did, he disappeared on me. Yes, these were guys from Craig's List. So I have wasted about 6 months of my life on these clowns.

Had a date with a guy from here the other day. And he lied about being a non-smoker and he took 5 years off...and it showed! lol What does it take for people to be up-front and honest? He stomped off when he didn't get what he wanted and judged me...

8/15/2011 11:06:12 AM

Well, I had my heart stomped on today with the Dom mentioned in my profile...6 blow jobs with no reciprocation...I just don't get it...I think some men hide behind the Dom/sub thing to get what they want and treat women like shit...someone please prove me wrong!

Aren't the subs supposed to have pleasure too with the Dom leading the way?

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