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Quick question... I need a few suggestions of other sites to meet people in the lifestyle. This site is full of fakes, wankers, and ass clowns. Now I remember why I got off of CM for a few years. Maybe its time to take My feet and selfishness to ChristianMingle or E-harmony and get off of this comedy site.   too time consuming and seems to be the place for those focusing on online servitude. I'm a real woman, with real dates, a real career, and real expectations.

Absence is the best way to punish My subjects and remove you from My world, My opinions, My thoughts, My body. Many of you are going to be in for a rude awakening.

Mistress Daniella

WEEKEND CONVERSATIONS WITH VANILLA FOLKS

As usual, I have a lot to say. As much as I know you want to hear My views on things like Donald Sterling (a cuck who needs a muzzle and better training) this isn't what I'm  talking about today. I want to share a conversation I had over the weekend with vanilla folks.

So, I was out with a few female friends and we ended up at a table with a lot of sexy older men. Now, I have always preferred older men because I actually enjoy having a conversation or two. Naturally, the three guys at the table were all making a play for Me initially. My other two friends are very pretty as well but they all made a play for Me. Me being Me, I soaked up the attention and flirted with the three of them back. I like options and variety and I hadn't yet made a decision as to which male I was most interested in. The conversation turned to occupation. Of the three Women at the table, I'm the only single one and also the most successful of us. I explained that I work two jobs as well as being in school for My real estate license.  The "men" go on to tell Me the reason I have to work is because I am too independent and I will not allow a man to lead. My girl friends agreed. They claim that as beautiful as I am, I will always have to work unless I allow a man to be the head of household and provide for Me. But this means that I will have to learn to compromise and be willing to allow him to make the decisions and to be the pretty "princess." 

My girl friends agreed. This is a conversation I have had with so many people over the years...men and women. There is a lot of truth to what they speak of. The majority of the submissives/slaves/bitches/sissies/etc online are not sincere. It is rare to find a submissive who is compatible and genuine. Usually I have to sacrifice having a slave I might share common interests with for one who will actually show up when needed. And lets not discuss looks and attraction. Most of you claim to want to "live" this way but you've never lived this way for more than a week or two at a time. Then you go back to being "Thomas White Man" and living a vanilla existence until you log onto CM and fantasize again. So yes, they are correct. I will probably always have to work hard to maintain My independence free from the rule of any male. Am I happy about it? No. I would love nothing more than to have My hardest decisions of the day to include which dick I will fuck and heels vs boots. But I'm not willing to stroke a man's ego and submit to him just to have an easier life. Maybe one day, the same way men stand up and take pride in providing for a woman who obeys and listens to him is the way a male will stand up with pride for submitting to the woman AND providing for Her. But until you ass clowns get your shit together and stop wanking off online and really try to be the "slave" you fantasize about being- then they are correct. I am a unicorn, snuffaluffagus, the Abominable Snowman, a Mermaid goddamnit because I am not a traditional Woman nor am I willing to become one for an easier life. I will continue to remain hopeful that My male wife, My personal slave is out there and looking for Me as I am for it. 

That is all.

My goals and dreams

My eventual goal is to have a large home here in California with slaves/servants that work tirelessly daily. Now, before some of you losers start t send Me emails asking to "live in My cage as My in-home servant" this isn't a free ride, bitch. The slaves will pay for and maintain the home, each having their own profession outside of the home (or independently wealthy), but whose MAIN priority are My needs. you will have outdoor uniforms (for landscaping, grocery running, errands). your outside uniform emblazened with My crest and symbol that will cause others to wonder "what cult is he apart of?" your indoor uniform is of course, naked, leash, collar, chastity device, and for My sissies, slutty maid outfits of course with butt plugged. I can lounge around in latex and corsets or fishnet all day, snapping fingers and barking orders. Mmmm.

This home is My shrine, My sanctuary, My castle. you are My driver, My cook, My pet to be walked on the grounds, My bitch to be raped, whipping boards, confidante. I am your EVERYTHING!!! I work because I want to work, not because I have to. you work because it is your place to work for Me. I can fuck around all day, brunch, live in luxury as the lady of leisure.

Now, I have had a live in before so I am very aware of what it is like living the lifestyle 24/7. What are your thoughts about this? Those of you who read and enjoy My journal, I want t hear from you bitches. 

daydreaming at work and this is what happens :)

Its My birthday Month!!!!

Yes, yes, I know you bitches are celebrating- April is the birth month of your favorite black Queen. I am a typical Aries, strong willed, creative, sensitive, but takes no shit. 

Now. I expect your well wishes, happy birthdays, and gift inquiries. The collective energy of good will and well wishes focused on Me and in My direction the entire month.

That is all, sissy and bitches

Mistress Daniella

Advice and Rants

Having had a wonderful and devoted live in slave for many years in Atlanta, I have forgotten how time consuming and a waste of space many of you can be. If you are looking for mercy and understanding- go to church. If you want the hard truth and to be broken down and shaped into your best slave self- pray to Me.

Let Me give you boys some good advice;

if you are on this site as a submissive or slave and you are seeking a FEMDomme, then you should put your best foot forward when approaching ALL Dominant Women on this site. Being needy of time and attention without giving anything in return is disrespectful and frankly, it pisses Me off. Who in the hell do you think you are to expect "conversations and chats" without being useful to Me? If I want conversations, I have friends. you are not My friend. you are a slave at best, a potential piss bucket at most. Let Me be very, very clear with you sluts...you will not get anything from Me until you are useful to Me. your petition to Me should include, "how may I be of use to you?" and then actually be available to be useful. I don't need some bitch in Laguna asking to be useful but not actually available when its time to be used. If you are not within a comfortable distance to jump at My whims, then save yourself from embarrassment. Furthermore, if you are married, in a relationship, living with someone, etc....then have three seats and shut the fuck up. I'm the type of Woman who will ass rape the ego out of you. I am a lot of things, merciful isn't one of them. I will relax with you when you are trained to Me. Until then, its formal and protocol driven.

Lastly, there are many male things here who really need the guidance of a Woman and truly crave to surrender, serve, and suffer. There are many who feel incomplete without that strict, dominating, take-no-shit Woman bossing them around and holding them accountable. Wankers, don't ruin it for the rest. Some (Most) of you are just kinky, you're sexually freaky and looking to play with your pencil dicks while professing your fantasies. Accept that and don't portray yourself as female supremacists. you are an embarrassment- not only to men, but to your mothers as well. But for those of you who truly adore Women, who are searching for that collar and leadership, and can't wait to grovel at the feet of your Owner- to you I say, good bitch.

That is all.

My xxxmas was everything a demanding black Mistress would want. Sissy maids, strap on training,  and a tidy home. I sat around and did nothing but put My feet up, bark orders, and llook amazing. Wishing the rest of you sluts, cucks, bitches, and sissies a wonderful xxxmas full of doing things for Women and nothing for yourselves. Tis the season for giving bitch- give your time, give your service, and give from your heart or suffer the consequences. 

LA bitches- being that I am away from home and family, I am not celebrating Xmas. I am, however, celebrating xxxmas. For those of you bitches that are here, without family or plans, I have feet to be rubbed, a bladder to be emptied, stress to relieve, a strap on to be used, and things to be fetched. Where are My LA xxxmas Ho, Ho, ho's and sluts?

Well bitches, I am here and I am settled. but for Me, home is not home until I own male property. So here is what I want:

1) LOCAL cumdumps- I need slaves to paint and assist with decorating My sex den/domain. If you can paint, hang things, fix things, and/or have furniture to give away (or buy Me) (tables, curtains, chairs, etc). I want you, naked, leashed, doing shit for Me, under My watchful eye. What will you get in return? Used. Maybe spit on, possibly pissed in, and if I'M really tired from watching you work you can rub My feet afterwards. This is not a fantasy, this is how I live. 

2) Non-Local bitches- I still want shit. lowe's gift cards, target, best buy, visa gift cards. NO, I'm not your new cyber buddy, your online Domme, pen pal and shit. I don't tolerate lazy men, I can't stand cheap asses, and frankly I'm too damn hot for stress. Do not contact Me otherwise from out of state unless you are prepared to be used. 

I really love this city. the world is My playground and I'm excited to meet new people who aappreciate being their authentic selves, slaves to Women, owned, and worshipping at the altar of the black Goddess. be the best of the best.