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whisperatnight

I am Dominant. It comes from my background. To give you a better idea, let me quote what someone once said. ”Men with dominant tendencies (some call them alpha-males) are very easy to discern. It's a personality type... not a choice one makes. It is not a lifestyle nor is it a hobby. It is that which makes one person what he is inside. Just as some of us are introverted and shy... some men are dominant.”

I have been in the lifestyle for a good number of years. 

I've made some less than appropriate choices in the past, but feel blessed that I've been able to learn from them. Now that I'm older, I no longer have the time nor the patience for relationships without purpose. I couldn't be involved with anyone that didn't have a strong sense of self, and know what they wanted from both the relationship, and life itself. What am I looking for? I’m looking for someone who cannot only share the lifestyle, but the more mundane aspects of life.