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About Hitch82
I am a 30 year old submissive white male seeking a dominate female.
It used be a distinct characteristic that the “Male” could not reveal signs of weakness, feebleness or vulnerability to anyone especially woman. However, today many men, including myself, have managed to liberate themselves from this. Being submissive, to me, means to be openly sensitive, vulnerable and obedient.
I do not mind a woman taking charge over me and in fact I love it and am turned on by it. I have begun to look for women who are dominate and confident. I am attracted to strong and confident women who relish holding the reins.
I am a strong confident male myself. I have always been raised to be in control and lead as a man. However, on the inside I have this inert desire to be controlled, even if it’s only for a short period of time. I am not able to live a servant’s life as a full-time submissive in another person’s home, but I do need to release this feeling of always needing to be in control. It makes my life better and more fruitful when I can be challenged by a strong woman and put in my place. I need to be told what to do, when to do it and how to do it.
Since the age of about 13 I have had this strong desire to feel the pain of being kicked in the groin. I do not know where this desire came from or why I feel this way, but it is there and I cannot shake it. Instead of shaking it, I gave into it and unfortunately it is not a common practice and frowned upon by many. How do you ask someone to kick you in the nuts without them thinking you’re a psychopath or freak?
As I mentioned above I need to be told what to do, when to do it and how to do it and more specifically it needs to be done by a woman. I get no benefit or satisfaction from a man trying to dominate me. The very act of women telling me to stand still, spread my legs and close my eyes so that she can kick me square in the nuts is exhilarating to me. It is the most painful experience and the most humbling experience all wrapped up into one single moment. I am able to lose control and all inhibitions in my life. I become completely vulnerable and at the mercy of the woman before me.
I am not always submissive in my life. I have goals, ambitions and challenges to overcome. I can be quite dominating towards others at times; however I have this side of me that always needs to be full-filled. I have learned that I am not able to be dominating towards women. I become mesmerized by their unique persona and confidence. It is as if women were always supposed to be the dominating being on earth opposed to me. I always joke that that is why men have their reproductive organs on display outside their body and women’s are on the inside. It is a distinct feature that is the heart of a man’s vulnerability. It exposes his weakness and forces him to be defenseless and susceptible.
I am open to other fetishes to accommodate others wants and needs. |
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