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Histopherness

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Histopherness - Male Dominant, Portland Oregon | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About Histopherness


I am looking for something special, a pet (or two) Who needs direction in their lives. I am not looking for a weekend playmate (though I might still be willing to play with you it isn't what I am seeking) nor am I looking for just a sexual slave. I'm seeking a person who is willing to give over their complete self; not only willing but NEEDS to give over control of their life. Someone seeking to live and explore all that life has to offer but requires a master to lead the way.

I expect complete obedience; you will learn what I tell you to learn, do what I tell you to do, be where I tell you to be, act as I tell you to act. In return you will have to worry about nothing. Your emotional self, your emapthy, your capacity for all aspects of life will mature. Those questions you ask yourself; those places you fear to go; the reasons behind those strong but not understood urges will all be revealed to you as you become the person you were meant to be.

If you read this and don't understand it then you are not what I am looking for. If you say to yourself "I'd love to give control of my life up" Then you are not what I am looking for (You are lieing to yourself; you should be scared to give up control of your life) If your just a straight up freak and looking for someone to punish you; then you are not what I am looking for (though I may still be happy to punish you)

I offer control, pleasure, love. I do not use saftey words. Don't need them. You trust me and I care enough not to hurt you. I don't believe in pain for punishment. Pain is for pleasure, play, growth. I use a reward/denial protocol for conditioning. I expect you to love yourself and be comfortable with who you are. I do not have the time to play games with women that believe there is something wrong with them and need a master to prove it.

It is truly difficult to explain who I am most of the time. A small bit of history maybe?

I was brought up in an abusive household (very domineering father) But instead of cowing me (OK it did a little) I learned to play the game and push his buttons and be his punching bag on my terms. Learned to be in control. Never learned to like the pain, never submitted to it willingly. Never submitted at all actually. It wasn't until later in life that I found out I was a dominant personality. Very dominate. But because of upbringing I always held myself in check; feared the power I knew I had over others.

I am not really a Dom; more of a caring person that enjoys that pleasure of others and is willing to do whatever it is they need to find that pleasure (note I said need, not want. I doubt many people truly know what they want until they have had a good deal of experience searching for it) I am dominate in relationships and situations because that is who I am not a role I play.

I do not demand respect, but I earn respect. If a pet is disobeying then it is a failing on my part not hers. I put strict protocols on myself as to how I will respond to someone wishing to be conditioned and very less rigid restraints on the sub. I do this because I am conditioning her, helping her be who she is deep inside. I can't force that on someone but can only encourage the behaviors they themselves find the most pleasing.

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