hisgoodgirl77

"You're fat" that was a lovely message i received today..

I am of the belief that to use your entire vocabulary in one sentence is dangerous...

When i sign in, i always have a different profile from another user in front of me, some make for interesting reading. Scarily i have also noticed an alarming amount of profiles of mostly women but some men too, who claim to be Dominant or sub, but along with demanding that they be worshipped,submitted too, and castrated, are also seeking monetary gain and in one case, want's people to vote for her on some site...

While it really isn't any of my business, it is now clear to me why so many people on here are tired of fake profile's, set up by people who either need their inflated ego's further boosted, or just like to mess people around, and even more weirdly just to comment on someones appearance in a derogatory way. Unfortunately a lot of people are so desperate for that Dom or sub that they get taken in and abused in ways they never considered. Of course it isn't just isolated to sites such as this, but the fact that there are people who are willing to search out vulnerable sub's and abuse them further, or ensnare a Dom who is captured by a pretty face.

It seem's that even in BDSM there are predators of more than one kind......

Someone on here asked me about songs that i thought related to being a submissive, i couldn't think of anything off hand, so just gave some songs that put me in the mood so to speak

Listening to this song the other night, and it hit me that in some ways it relates to a D/s relationship, at least for me it does. Mainly in terms of the power exchange that occurs but also other aspects of it. It is a real favourite of mine, would love it if anyone has idea's about other songs that relate to them either in a Dom or sub sense.

Oh dear,

Once again i have encountered the bad side of this site, i am really rather fed up of the men on here, who seem to think that because i haven't replied to their witty and urbane message within five seconds of reading it, that i am clearly just on here to whore about for men.

Even worse when they proceed to call me a hypocrite, and then block me, so i can't even reply to the accusation.

Let's call this a warning shall we? If i have read your message and not replied, it is because i am busy, trust me if i am not interested in you, you will know one way or the other, i do not purposely leave myself open to verbal abuse, and i will not accept it from anyone, i am not your's, i will not kow-tow to anyone.

Also anyone just sending messages such as "nice ass" will be blocked, it shows a lack of imagination, and therefore i can only ascertain that your scenario's during a play session, will be just as thrilling as a two syllable message. 

Finally, do not assume anything, i have always been taught to be polite and courteous, so the fact i am replying to everyone does not mean i am a whore, it means i am trying to reply to all the people who took the time to write something to me.

Also, is there actually a leader board of some kind on here? If so that is pretty hilarious....