His1andONLYBrat

What am I looking for in a relationship?? 

I am looking for someone I can be weak with...because I am so tired of being strong all the time. 
And vice versa...
For a Dominant to be weak with me when the world is pounding them and let me be their strength when they need it most =)

SHOWS ME THEIR TRUE STRENGTH

I want to be able to give this poem to someone...SOMEDAY!!!

MY COMMITMENT TO YOU

I kneel before you completely vulnerable
My eyes are lowered
My heart, mind, body and soul are yours
I know you smile down at me, for you know I am yours.

You give me your wisdom, I give you my mind to expand
You give me your gentle touch, I give you my body to control
You give me your love, I give you my heart to hold
You give me your strength, I give you my soul to protect.
You give me your Dominance, I give you my submission

The walls that surrounded me are gone
They are replaced with the collar that surrounds my neck
My only fear is loosing you.....

You are MY world
You are My Master

I am YOUR 1 and ONLY brat

Lets get 1 thing straight here...My TOP priority in my life is my 15 year old daughter.  I am her first role model, who ever i choose to be with must also be a role model to her.  If you aren't ready for THAT responsibility...Then keep moving on. 

There is a difference between being a play sub and being an collared sub.  I DO NOT HAVE SEX IF I AM A PLAY SUB.  I only have sex if i am in a RELATIONSHIP with someone, whether it be poly or monogomous.  Yes - I know relationships take time.  BUT ANYONE CAN HAVE SEX...I want, need and DESERVE MORE!!!

On my knees, I'll ask
Last chance for one last dance
'Cause with you, I'd withstand
All of hell to hold your hand
I'd give it all
I'd give for us
Give anything but I WON'T GIVE UP!!

What should a Master be? That question must be answered by each Dominant or Master individually. These are My thoughts, based certainly on the thoughts and writings of others. . For purposes of this discussion, Master and Dom may be used interchangeably and also include the feminine forms, Mistress and Domme.


The Master is a strong man, a dominant man.

He is sure of himself, confident in his place in society. He cherishes females, revels in their presence. He is giving, caring, loving and understanding.

Domination is not simply giving random orders.

It is the Master?s duty to find ways to cause My sub to desire to please Me. As the Dominant member of the relationship ? as Master ? I must be My submissive?s emotional protector, teacher and lover.

The Master?s relationship with all submissives is one of respect.

?for her choice of position and status. With His own submissive ? whether she be His slave, His possession or a casual plaything ? it is one of love. He worships her, discovers her, slowly possesses her. He gently pushes her, always ready to show her that she is strong, that her limits are not what she believes them to be, that she can be taken farther. In this, the Master reveals to His sub her own confidence, her own levels of self esteem.

Eventually, an understanding begins to take place between Master and sub.

He senses her desires, her needs, her passions. With this new knowledge, the Master takes care of the sub, always giving her what she needs ? which is not necessarily what she presumes she needs nor what she says she ?wants.?

It is the Master's responsibility to care for, protect and love his sub.

If she is sick, He will feed her. If she is exhausted, He will allow her to rest. If she is frightened, He will comfort her. If she needs affection, He will hold her. These things He does willingly, because He knows her. He understands her as no one else does. He has seen into her soul and held it in His hands. Her mind is His to read, to know. Her body is His to feel. Her heart is His to caress. He owns her; she is His possession.

The Master does not take away the sub?s identity.

Rather, He allows her to grow into her own being, her own likeness. Her submission to Him is not a vehicle of punishment or hatred, but one of love and development. She is given the room to come into her own, under her Master's care, like a flower that flourishes under the sun's warmth. She radiates from His love and devotion. She becomes a rose; a beautiful being that knows she is loved and cared for.

A Master does not mold a sub into what he feels she should be.

Rather, He allows her the freedom to live and grow under His loving care. She becomes the woman she has always been, deep within her spirit. As Master, I take the gift of submission seriously, knowing that it is not given freely or lightly. I always remember how precious the gift is, how rare it is, how beautiful it is. For it is something that cannot be taken for granted: the gift of your soul.

As protector?

I must be (a) stronger than My sub and (b) stronger than other people in her life. This does not mean physically stronger; rather, it refers to character, personality, emotions.

As teacher?

I must be wise and ? above all ? right. Yes, a D/s relationship is built more on thorns than on roses. But, punishment cannot be arbitrary, meted out on a whim. There must be a reason that B/both understand. Otherwise, the trust and security so carefully built can be broken down. The sub?s respect for her Master must be earned by His being right, by issuing swift correct justice for transgressions and equally quick rewards for proper behavior. I am not there to inflict pain and degradation, but to provide a goal and direction on how to love and please Me. There is no place for anger in punishment. The Master is teaching. Punishment and discipline need not be physical; they can be psychological. It is not done out of harshness or hostility, it is done out of love and forgiveness.

As lover?

I must be loving and ? when appropriate ? stern. I must recognize that I am My sub?s only source of pleasure. I must ensure this area is not neglected. When appropriate, I must be gentle, supportive and tender. A D/s relationship is not simply about the Master overpowering His sub. It is about the Master caring for His sub?s emotional well-being. If punishment is required to stop a destructive action by the sub, then it must come from Me. On the other hand, when correct action is noted, when My beloved makes Me proud, then love and caring must flow equally quickly.

That is the profile of a Master:

Strong, able, confident, loving, caring, encouraging, and gentle.

My submissive is my possession.

But, she is a highly valued and loved possession ? the most valuable thing I own. The submissive is a woman, firm and comfortable in her femininity.

You offer yourself to your Master freely, of your own choosing. You give the gift of your submission in exchange for protection, care and love. You are obedient because you choose to be, not because you are forced to be. Your first priority is pleasing your Master. You will do whatever I ask in order to meet My desires. This does not mean you, as My sub, eliminate your personality, or give up any power. No. You give what you want to give. As Master, I hold that gift in My deepest heart, always sharing, always giving back what you need. This enables us to build an immense measure of trust between us. As you must trust your Lord completely in order to give Me so much of yourself, so I must trust you in order to accept that gift.

As your Dom/Lord/Master, it is My task to earn your subservience and submission. I take pride in the pleasure you give Me, knowing W/we are working together to create one of the most beautiful relationships possible.