Hewantsmetrained

Male Switch, 49, Bridgeton, Missouri

Dominant Couple, 37, Palestine, Illinois

Male Submissive, 22, Dothan, Alabama

I am more than happy to say I fucked up in choosing to be to the point and concise in writing my profile. Before I go on I will say I have a had some good contacts. Those people should know who they are and can skip this, or read it and get a better idea of our process and mindset. That has led many of you to think that this is something we came up with with out thinking. We have been discussing and working to the goal of me becoming His submissive slut wife for around 3 years. We started with the domestic side. I took classes, attend work shops in sowing, gardening, home maintenance.. As well as a year of culinary arts school. For about the last year I have not worked out side of the home. I have, as he wants, devoted my time to taking care of the home and? making his life easer. Maybe that sounds easy to some of you. I will say for me that It took some faith on my part to give up the control that comes from having a job. Not contribute and having that say over our fiancees. Giving up that ambition we were all brought up with to go out and get ahead in the work place. I have learned to take that dive and use it to keeping our home as perfect as it can be. We also worked on the sexual side. When we first moved in together our sex was in the bed, missionary and doggie, no anal, rare oral. We have moved past that. ? ?? ?

Ok another update. Yes we are looking for and open to older trainers. Kind of the point really. I want to be trained by some one that has made there mistakes already and now knows what they are doing. Not every one that rides horses is a horse trainer. Buying a hammer does not make you a carpenter. Having a sub willing to be trained does not make you a good trainer.

Well you only get one chance to make a first impression. I seem to have screwed that up. I am getting a lot of very reasonable important questions. The issue is I am getting them over and over. So let me take some time to answer them here. Limits, I think the basic limits are simple. No permanent marks, No young kids, Nothing that will put me in prison? or the hospital. That said actual limits will have to be negotiated. I need to be kept healthy.? There needs to be some return on the suffering inflicted. Sex/Sexuality, yes my husband knows and wants me fucked. We thought saying he wanted me slut trained covered that. We have done somethings along these lines and He has enjoyed watch other men use me in the past. ? Not really a question but a clarification. the order of priority in areas of training should have been; Obedience, He would like me to listen first then act. As opposed to listening talking then thinking it over and deciding to act. Sort of getting my ego out of the way of being his and acting to please him. Or more simply putting him first. It is not that I don't try to but lets face it the world brings up all up to think of our self's first. Slut/bisex/lez, He would like to be able to have me please him and those he tells me to with out hesitation or shyness. To do those dirty things good girls are told not to do.? I think this is very realated to the first issue of becoming less about me and more about him. I guess there is also getting past a lot of hang ups. I would not say I am prudish but? as an exsample the idea of ass to mouth makes me queasy. Pain, He would love to be able to give me a good hard slap when he feels i need it with out me getting pissy about it. He would also like me to be able to hold still for a spanking or whipping. More he would like to be able to have me hurt myself or do things that hurt as I do them. This is an issue I have sure time me down and I can take a spanking that leave my ass welted for a few days. I don't bitch about it and am happy to take it to please him I even get wet. But with out something to hold me in place I just can't my meself not try to get away. I also cant do things to myself that couse to much pain. I think this is a matter of condtioning and working on tolerence. Puppy/pet play, He would like to have me spend some days as a dog. on my knees walked in the back yard, fetch, eat from a bowl. We have done some of this but really I lake the disoplin to do it with out breaking roll for more then a few hours. Well I hope this give you all a better idea of what we are looking for and were we are and and would like to be. ?

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