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Female Submissive, 35, Melbourne
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About herabusetoy
i am a submissive male living in Austin, TX. While there are plenty of Dominant Women in Austin, i have had little luck in my search. This is at least in part due to my shyness and general feeling of awkwardness when it comes to FemDom and BDSM groups. i would much, much prefer to meet someone one-on-one. Obviously this is not really the kind of relationship or activity one would want to propose to a random person in a bar.
i am an attractive white male, around 187 lb, hwp, 41 y.o. (but i look and act much younger). i'm looking both in Austin and beyond for that special Domme. Short of that though, i am also interested in just meeting Dommes and aspiring Dommes and Domme-curious for one time play sessions and/or ongoing play.
Things i'm "in to":
-ass and full body beatings (especially with canes, high intensity paddles and whips)
-clamps, needles and other pain inducing agents applied to my penis, balls and nipples
-catheterisation
-piercing of the penis, balls and/or nipples
-whipping, slapping and beating of my penis and balls.
-weights hung from my penis, balls and nipples.
-being burned by fire, hot objects, hot wax (esp black) anywhere on the body
-face slapping
-being branded on the butt with some sort of symbol of my property status (this most likely only with "that special Domme")
-being tortured with electricity.
-playing with no-limits or safe words (this however can only be if i'm completely comfortable with the person)
-being bound in a very exposed and vulnerable position
-being gagged
-being told what to do
-being butt-fucked by a Domme's very large strap-on or dildo and being made to where a butt plug.
-being made to where a chastity device.
-being a domestic servant
-being humiliated (especially in front of 2 or more Women and pretty much in anyway, including small penis humiliation)
-being feminized (being made to wear girlie cloths, panties, lipstick, fuzzy pink slippers, etc.)
-being peed on by Women and (if the comfort level is there) in my mouth.
-having my face sat on.
-having my penis and balls trampled.
-serving Women orally in any way They tell me to (Vagina, anus or whatever)
-being sexually Dominated. By this i mean that She would have complete sexual control. This would most likely mean that i would be denied any sexual contact with Her except possibly oral and that i would be denied most of the time or always any self-gratification. She of course COULD use me for sex if She wanted to and in any way She wanted to.
Things that i'm not as much in to but willing to be subjected to (i AM in to being made by Her to submit to these things)
-being kicked in the balls
-being made to watch my Domme make love to a man
-being made to serve Her and Her lover (male or female) before, during, and after sex
-being made to suck a "real" man's dick
-being made to take a "real" man's dick up the butt.
-being defecated on/being made to eat feces (safety concerns would apply here)
-being publicly humiliated (i.e. in a public place in front of strangers)
Things that i would not want to have happen, at least not until i'm in a fully committed D/s relationship
-being humiliated in front of none-lifestyle friends and associates.
-anything that would cause serious, permanent or long lasting damage (black and blue welts that last a month do not count)
-having my penis cut off.
-being castrated
-being made to take female hormones.
Obviously i like a lot of pain and humiliation. i also like being made to take pain even when it's too much, cause nothing should ever be too much. If i were to ever slip while being tortured and express even the slightest resistance or objection to my Mistress i would hope to be severely punished.
Having said all of this, it is important to note that D/s, at least in this vision, has nothing to do with the likes and wishes of the sub and everything to do with the likes and wishes of the Domme. i only put all this out there so as to let it be known how willing i am to submit to extreme pain and humiliation and that there would be no need to go easy on me or be reluctant to take me deep.
Please let me know if You are interested, whether You think you would like to have me as Your slave or if You think it would be fun to just spend an hour, 2 or 3 hours, an entire day/night, a weekend, a week, or whatever, torturing and humiliating me and having me serve You. If W/we click, perhaps it could be a regular thing and/or the idea of 24/7 could be discussed at a time of Your choosing.
Age is not important, but 30s and up would probably be best for experience purposes. i am open to playing with any age (over 18) though.
i am willing to travel and to relocate.
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