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Read the ENTIRE profile before messaging me.
NO MARRIED MEN!!!
I am not a life-styler. I am now looking actively for a dating relationship with a fellow bottom or a switch.
Looking for Black, Latino or Asian men only.
Bisexual men are more than welcome to message me. I still have the fantasy of a 3-way with 2 sexy men that I want to fulfill.
No longer looking for strictly play partners. If someone truly interesting catches my attention, then I'm still open.
There are far too many cowards on this site who like to run their mouths behind a computer at a safe distance.
As Always, the Brothas are welcome to message me just to say 'hello'. Just drop a line to let me know you're out there.
I am NOT interested in Caucasians/Whites.
No fat men, no hairy men, no short (5'4 and under) men. No females. No Doms.
My Description::::::
Female African-American bottom, looking for Bottom or Switch men in my immediate area. Meaning San Gab Valley or western I.E...This is for real time only. No online email associations.
Looking for men between 22 and 40.
I have 3 years of experience. I am a Bottom who is into sensation play.
Flogging, whipping, spanking and canes among other sensations.
I have no interest in "serving" anyone. Nor do I have an interest in being "trained."
For convenience, you should be in the eastern portion of L.A. County or nearby in the northern Riverside or western San Bernardino County area.
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Happy African-American (Black if you prefer) History Month!! A wonderful time to learn fun facts about my people here on the continent.
Henry McNeal Turner Born
February 1, 1834. This man was born a slave and made to work some of the hardest labor in the cotton fields. Throughout his life his thirst for knowledge led him to learn to read a bit at first with the help of an elderly white woman. Who did so in defiance of the so-called law at the time which forbade anyone from teaching a Black person to read. He persevered and by the end of his life and several careers later, "He founded the Southern Christian Recorder and the Women's Home and Foreign Missionary Society. He is credited with bringing the South African Conference into the Connection. In addition to being an author and orator, Henry McNeal Turner also served as a member of the Georgia Legislature. Taken from http://www.turnerchapelame.org/history/histhmt.htm"
From blackfacts.com |
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I need to get laid. BAD!!!! |
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go Lakers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BACK TO BACK!!!!!!!!!!!
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Good grief. I keep fighting my dominant urges. But I hate dominants, they suck. I don't wanna be one. I'm ever so conflicted.
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This is very disturbing. The other day on one of the forums a man was discussing his fantasies (I forget which one).
At one point, he admitted to being sexually abused by family members, and like many reports I've read on sexual abuse, he admitted to enjoying many aspects of it. I suppose this is what makes that type of abuse so insidious and ends up messing up many people's minds.
That was bad enough, but this is what was worse. At no point (at least in any of the responses I saw) did anyone address the abuse in their response. These posters just continued discussing his fantasy or whatever the hell it was the post was about.
I have never been in a forum online or off, where if someone discussed being abused, that people didn't ask if the person had sought professional help of if they were ok with what happened. Or even just offered to lend an ear. It was as if he'd written something as dull as, "I enjoyed gardening and roller skating as a child."
I've noticed this about some people I've encountered over the last 2 yrs who are involved in BDSM. If you so much as hint that a fetish is not healthy or may truly be dangerous, or that maybe some of these people should seek professional help, they act offended. It's like you're personally attacking some sacred cow.
Past abuse shouldn't stop you from getting involved with someone, but it's necessary to know what you're dealing with.
I'm also not implying by this post that the majority of people involved in this lifestyle are abuse survivors or in need of professional help. The statistics say there are no higher numbers in this community than there are in the vanilla world.
What seems to be very different is how the general population reacts to declarations of childhood physical/and or sexual abuse. People in the vanilla realm, are disturbed and want to know if the person making the declaration has sought help. Just my two cents.
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This really shouldn't have to be written. But don't send me friend requests unless we've corresponded and discussed it first. They will all be rejected.
It's like damned myspace on here. Bunch of fricken add-whores.
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Some things are just wrong.
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"Festivus for the rest of us." |
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GO LAKERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is one of the many reasons it's so good to be a Southern Calif. native.
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Here's an Asian-American Baseball player. Enjoy.
Danny Graves
Born: Aug. 7, 1973
Baseball RHP
saved at least 30 games for the Cincinnati Reds in 2000–2002; after
spending 2003 as a starter with a 4–15 record, he returned to the
bullpen and saved 41 games in 2004; set school record for saves at
Miami-FL with 21 in 1994; native of Saigon, Vietnam
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Asian/Pacific Islander Month.
OK. I messed up and got busy with other things. I forgot May is Asian/Pacific Islander month. So here is the first of a few fun facts about Asians in America. *yay*
Norman Yoshio Mineta
The lone Democrat appointed to Bush's cabinet, Mineta was offered the same job in the Clinton administration, but passed so he could continue as chairman of the House Public Works and Transportation Committee.
He served for 20 years in the U.S. House of Representatives. When he retired in 1995, he became senior vice president in the Transportation and Services Division of Lockheed Martin. In July 2000, he became President Clinton's secretary of commerce.
When he was 10 years old, Mineta and his family were sent to a Japanese-American internment camp. As a congressman, he sponsored a bill to compensate internees.
The legislation passed, and former internees were paid $20,000.
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Cut and paste.
I love getting cut and paste messages from dumb-asses who clearly haven't read the profile. Since I love putting fools on blast, I will start a "cut and paste" list for my own amusement.
It really can't be that hard to read first before messaging someone. That is just basic common sense isn't it? hmmm.
This will be similar to the list of racist messages that I've posted in the past.
Get ready to giggle.
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I'd like to thank everyone who wrote in to say they enjoyed the Black History Month entries. I enjoyed finding them and sharing them.
I am planning to post similar items for Asian/Pacific and Latino Heritage months. So those of you out there who are Latino and Asian, please don't let me forget to do this. |
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One more entry before the month officially ends at midnight. Enjoy.
Archibald Alphonso Alexander
design and construction engineer
Born: 1888
A 1912 recipient of a civil engineering degree from the University of Iowa, Iowa City, Archibald “Archie” Alexander joined the Marsh Engineering Company where he designed the Tidal Basin bridge in Washington, D.C.
After studying bridge design in London, he and George Higbee formed a general contracting business that focused on bridge design.
Alexander's designs include Washington, D.C.'s Whitehurst Freeway, the heating plant and power station at the University of Iowa, and an airfield in Tuskegee, Alabama.
Alexander went on to become the first Republican territorial governor of the U.S. Virgin Islands.
Died: 1958 |
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Black History Moment # 3
Thomas Jennings, born in 1791, is believed to have been the first Black inventor to receive a patent for an invention.
He was 30 years old when he was granted a patent for a dry cleaning process. Jennings was a free tradesman and operated a dry cleaning business in New York City.
His income went mostly to his abolitionist activities. In 1831, he became assistant secretary for the First Annual Convention of the People of Color in Philadelphia, PA.
Slaves were prohibited from receiving patents on their inventions. Although free Black inventors were legally able to receive patents, most did not.
Some feared that recognition and most likely the prejudice that would come with it would destroy their livelihoods. |
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Another Black History moment.
Patricia Bath
Patricia Bath became the first African American woman doctor to receive a patent for a medical invention.
Dr. Patricia Bath, an ophthalmologist from New York, but living in Los Angeles when she received her patent, became the first African American woman doctor to receive a patent for a medical invention.
Patricia Bath's patent (no. 4,744,360), a method for removing cataract lenses, transformed eye surgery, using a laser device making the procedure more accurate.
Patricia Bath's passionate dedication to the treatment and prevention of blindness led her to develop the Cataract Laserphaco Probe. The probe, patented in 1988, is designed to use the power of a laser to quickly and painlessly vaporize cataracts from patients' eyes, replacing the more common method of using a grinding, drill-like device to remove the afflictions.
With another invention, Bath was able to restore sight to people who had been blind for over 30 years. Patricia Bath also holds patents for her invention in Japan, Canada, and Europe.
Patricia Bath graduated from the Howard University School of Medicine in 1968 and completed specialty training in ophthalmology and corneal transplant at both New York University and Columbia University.
In 1975, Bath became the first African-American woman surgeon at the UCLA Medical Center and the first woman to be on the faculty of the UCLA Jules Stein Eye Institute.
She is the founder and first president of the American Institute for the Prevention of Blindness. Patricia Bath was elected to Hunter College Hall of Fame in 1988 and elected as Howard University Pioneer in Academic Medicine in 1993.
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For my people. A Black (African) History Blurb.
David
Crosthwait (1891 - 1976)
David Crosthwait was born in Nashville, Tennessee and grew up in Kansas City,
Missouri.
He received a Bachelor of Science degree (1913) and a Master
of Engineering degree (1920) from Purdue University and honorary doctoral
degree in 1975.
Crosthwait moved to Marshall Town,
Iowa in 1913 to work for the Durham Company designing heating installations.
From 1925 to 1930, Crosthwait was the director of the research department,
investigating heating and ventilation methods. Crosthwait holds 39 U.S.
patents for heating systems, vacuum pumps, refrigeration methods and processes and temperature regulating devices, and 80 international patents for the same.
He is well known for creating the heating system for New York's famous
Radio City Music Hall and Rockerfeller Center.
Crosthwait was an expert on heat transfer, air ventilation and central air conditioning. He was the author of a manual on heating and cooling with water and guides, standards, and codes that dealt with heating, ventilation, refrigeration, and air conditioning systems.
During the 1920s and 30s, he invented an improved boiler, a new
thermostat control and a new differential vacuum pump, all more effective for the heating systems in larger buildings.
He was the Technical Advisor of Dunham-Bush, Inc. from 1930 to 1971. After retiring, Crosthwait taught a course on steam heating theory and control systems at Purdue University.
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*I've always loved this.* This is for these young Black folks who think Lil Wayne is talented. Here's the real shit.
Gill Scott Heron -
The Revolution Will Not Be Televised
You will not be able to stay home, brother.
You will not be able to plug in, turn on and cop out. < b/>
You will not be able to lose yourself on skag and skip,
Skip out for beer during commercials,
Because the revolution will not be televised.
< b/>
The revolution will not be televised.
The revolution will not be brought to you by Xerox
In 4 parts without commercial interruptions.
The revolution will not show you pictures of Nixon
blowing a bugle and leading a charge by John
Mitchell, General Abrams and Spiro Agnew to eat
hog maws confiscated from a Harlem sanctuary.
< b/>
The revolution will not be televised.
The revolution will not be brought to you by the
Schaefer Award Theatre and will not star Natalie
Woods and Steve McQueen or Bullwinkle and Julia.
The revolution will not give your mouth sex appeal.
The revolution will not get rid of the nubs.
The revolution will not make you look five pounds
thinner, because the revolution will not be televised, Brother.
< b/>
There will be no pictures of you and Willie May
pushing that shopping cart down the block on the dead run,
or trying to slide that color television into a stolen ambulance.
NBC will not be able predict the winner at 8:32
or report from 29 districts.
The revolution will not be televised.
< b/>
There will be no pictures of pigs shooting down
brothers in the instant replay.
There will be no pictures of pigs shooting down
brothers in the instant replay.
There will be no pictures of Whitney Young being
run out of Harlem on a rail with a brand new process.
There will be no slow motion or still life of Roy
Wilkens strolling through Watts in a Red, Black and
Green liberation jumpsuit that he had been saving
For just the proper occasion.
< b/>
Green Acres, The Beverly Hillbillies, and Hooterville
Junction will no longer be so damned relevant, and
women will not care if Dick finally gets down with
Jane on Search for Tomorrow because Black people
will be in the street looking for a brighter day.
The revolution will not be televised.
< b/>
There will be no highlights on the eleven o'clock
news and no pictures of hairy armed women
liberationists and Jackie Onassis blowing her nose.
The theme song will not be written by Jim Webb,
Francis Scott Key, nor sung by Glen Campbell, Tom
Jones, Johnny Cash, Englebert Humperdink, or the Rare Earth.
The revolution will not be televised.
< b/>
The revolution will not be right back after a message
about a white tornado, white lightning, or white people.
You will not have to worry about a dove in your
bedroom, a tiger in your tank, or the giant in your toilet bowl.
The revolution will not go better with Coke.
The revolution will not fight the germs that may cause bad breath.
The revolution will put you in the driver's seat.
< b/>
The revolution will not be televised, will not be televised,
will not be televised, will not be televised.
The revolution will be no re-run brothers;
The revolution will be live.
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I never thought I'd live to see the day. Damn I'm happy right now. |
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SMART CARS
Oh my gawd. Are those things cute! And it must take a serious pair to drive those tiny things on the same roads as these oversized SUVs. So props to anyone out there rolling in a Smart Car. I salute you. |
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SURLY SALTINE DISPATCHES
Well here it is. I asked my fellow ethnic minorities a few weeks ago if the racist behavior from caucasians on this site was happening to others as well. The results are not pretty. And here they are.
10/20/08
Here's the latest entertainment from a homosexual female in a European country. The spelling has not been edited, because it was fabulous all on its own. *grin*
"Lady you are sick, why would you want to bring your obvoius racist comments to a beautyfull thing like bdsm. get your act together and start to enjoy life a little, corrinne" /////////
I love how these unsolicited hate e-mails are somehow my fault, at least in her mind. How does that work exactly? I got reported and censured for 24 hours, likely because of this journal. Thats how I know I'm on the right track. Well that and all the confirmation from other Black folks who've had similar experiences.
10/16/08
Here's something new and rather interesting. Apparently even our sexual orientation doesn't save us from insults in certain cases.
Today another attractive brotha from the east coast emailed to inform me that white MALE subs sometimes message him to declare their interest. This, despite his being heterosexual.
When he politely declines, he often receives disrespectful, racist replies. Sad, pathetic and cowardly.
Here's one I received a few months back. I don't know how I forgot about this little gem.
This caucasian emails me to say, "I"m white and I want you. So let's make this happen or I won't vote for that half nigger Obama." ..... needless to say, I didn't respond.
One very attractive brotha from the east coast said the racism ran him off this site at one point. He's back now.
Another sista from the east, has been called "nigger bitch" in several instances because she prefers Black men and states that in her profile. Wow. Who knew Black people having a personal preference for their own was such a big deal. All this time, I just thought it was natural. But what do I know.
Anyway, enough of this. Here are the greatest "hits" from Surly Saltines.
Two nights ago in response to my putting out feelers for a Black spanking partner.
".and to think this handsome, masculine 6' 3", 227lbs. very strong white man relishes the opportunity to tan a beautiful Black woman who is truly the most exquisite beast on earth!
Oh did I forget to say, the art of spanking is my forte..."
--The Captain, Fullerton, NOC (CPTNCANDO@aol.com)/// note the use of the word "beast" to describe Black people. Nice. I replied to this non-entity about his use of the word. He has yet to answer. Shocking. No wait, not really.
......More to come later.
When I joined with this particular profile a few months back, a ...what to call this type of thing...oh yes, bit of pond scum emailed me. His screen name is nolaadom and noladdy. I believe he's from the deep south somewhere. Said pond scum referred to me as a "dirty nigger" and a "dumb monkey". Keep in mind, I never contacted him or replied to these disgusting insults. I got the impression he was targeting Black women for his bile. I'm not all that surprised though.
Another piece of human waste calling himself beachdom from Orange County responded to my ad several months ago. His first email referred to his fondness for "dark meat." When I responded that such a term for Black people was offensive he replied with, "Dark meat, nigger. It's all the same ghetto trash."
Classy.
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Here's one from late September. I don't recall his screen name. But I do remember his message.
"This white master is interested in training yo ass."
Note use of what he considers "Black Vernacular" by writing "yo" instead of your. What exactly was this supposed to accomplish?
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****hey everyone. Keep the great messages coming on this topic. It's been very interesting so far. I didn't expect to get so many responses so fast. Keep 'em coming!!
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An inquiry to the Black, Latino and Asian members of this site.?? I'm doing an informal study on something. Read on please.
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Hey ladies and gentlemen. I'm just curious about something. I've been on this site for a few months now and have gotten a lot and I mean a lot of offensive emails with racist overtones.
?I've been on vanilla dating sites and never had this type of thing happen.
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Most of the emails just fall under the offensive and condescending or sarcastic tone because I'm a Black woman who isn't interested in whites. As if a Black person isn't allowed to have preferences. There are no racial slurs on my profile, so this is quite interesting. And none of the offensive messages have come from Asians, Black people, or Latinos.?
?? The messages have ranged from out and out racial slurs, to as I stated before, condescension and sarcasm.
? So here it is>>>>
? I am asking all Black, Latino, and Asian members of all sexual and BDSM orientations to drop me a line if, AND ONLY IF, you have gotten these types of messages yourselves.? This is something I've been curious about for awhile.
? These messages can be as benign as someone who has some racial fetish, to downright nastiness. If you can state examples that would be even better.
? Again this is informal just so I can sate my curiosity.
? Thanks to everyone in advance for your time and consideration.
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If I see one more idiot rolling down the 10 Freeway on their cell phone without a blue tooth piloting some obscenely huge, gas-guzzling, environment destroying SUV, I'm going to run said idiot over, yank them from their behemoth vehicle and stomp a mudhole in their dumb asses. Then I'm going to top that off by cramming their phone down their useless throat.
The law states hands free only while driving and I'm sick of seeing these fools thinking they can get around it. But I guess anyone who would drive an SUV without a legitimate business reason to do so, can't be trusted to have good sense in the first place.
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All I have to say is, thank Ogun for the e-mail filters on this site. They are absolutely essential and I unfortunately find that they are used every day. But at least they are there.
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My profile can't be any clearer. And yet...
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| Age: 26 |
| Memphis,
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