I am too busy to role play online. ?If you are not in a state that neighbors PA, then do not bother contacting me. ?I will block you and send your messages to the trash where they belong. ?There are far too many men in PA, NY, NJ and DE that want my attention for me to entertain emails from people in Texas or Michigan. ?

I want a man who can keep me warm now, not six months from now after endless emails and yahoo chats. ?I'm not ?here to fill your free time with yahoo chats or to view your web cam. ?I am here for me. ?I have never been a priority in my life. Its time for that to change.

I thought I should put more about what I am into, as I learn more about myself and what appeals to me. ?I'm not interested in bisexual men. ?I'm not interested in men who like to dress as women, even if its something as subtle as women's panties?indiscreetly?worn under clothing. ?

I am willing to entertain the idea of spending time with older men, but nothing can become long term with an older man. ?I am only 33 and can't picture myself in a serious relationship with someone much older than me.

I was in a marriage for 11 years with a selfish man. ?My ideal partner would be ?man who is handsome and confident. ?Someone who will treat me with respect and adoration in the vanilla world. ?But behind closed doors will do what I say, when I say it. ?Your primary goal should be to make me happy.