i am a 40 bbw, blondish brown hair, blue eyes. i have been in the lifestyle for about 3 years. Would like to meet someone local who i could be friends with, and also grow and learn more about the lifestyle. i'm not into heavy pain, but a moderate amount can be nice at times in a scene. What draws me most is the mental side of this life of service. The fulfillment that i get from following instruction. However, please do not try to Dominate me, until you are my Dominant. i am a person, i don't serve from the word "hello" but when i do agree to serve, i do so fully. i do have a pic to provide if we begin to chat and wish to exchange photos.