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Male Submissive, 18, Urbana, California
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Male Dominant, 53
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About heatseeker1
There's so much you can write here, both vanilla and in terms of my "interests." As for the vanilla part, or rather, as for my actual life, you can see my interests to the left of here. I'm artistic, intelligent, and easy-going, yet very goal-oriented. As for why we're all here, I tried to cover the key points:
One word (albeit a stupid one) - spanko. It's a descriptive and accurate word, but one I've never cared for. Anyway, I'm interested in spanking and domestic discipline, preferably otk, and other means of traditional domestic discipline. I'm open to trying other activities, but DD spanking is why I'm here. I do also like playful spankings, but they are "a whole nuther thing" as we say in the South. Discipline is discipline and playtime is playtime - can't mix 'em.
A short history: I've been into this for as long as I can remember - even as a kid, which is weird to think about. I was fascinated with it on TV and in books. I initiated spanking games with my playmates. As I got older, I shied away from it, unable to even say the word. From time to time in college I'd get drunk enough to tempt a girlfriend into playing. Then came the internet, and I've "been here ever since." Any of this sound familiar?
I’m a top, but I have switched and subbed before, and would again pending the person and the situation. Translation: just because I HAVE doesn't mean I WILL. In fact, it doesn't necessarily mean I would even want to. But if that's what you're into, and we click, and the dynamic is right, then it's on the table. Topping is more enjoyable and natural for me.
I don't consider myself kinky, obsessive, or sex-crazed. Not much of a freak or pervert. I don't really want to tie you up. I'm not interested in your feet. I don't want to put anything in your butt. No desire to sniff your panties. I'm not going to ask you to send me a naked picture of yourself before we even meet, or ask you how many times you've masturbated today. I'm just a normal guy who happens to be a full-on spanko. In fact, I'm not even sure I'd consider spanking a fetish or an overt sexual activity - more like an adult activity with sexual undertones, if that makes any sense. I don't mean to sound closed-minded, and like I said, I am open to trying different things, but this is what I like.
So there I am. Or there's some of me anyway. I left a lot out. But you can ask me what ever you want. And on that note, I'm hoping for an LTR, but until then I’m interested in making friends. If you are too, drop me a line.
Oh, and I usually wear glasses, I just de-shadesd for the picture. |
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