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Dominant Couple, 62, Tampa Bay, Florida
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Female Submissive, 33, Independence, Kentucky
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Male Dominant, 40, Youngstown, Ohio
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About heartlesswench
The joys of starting fresh with ones life!
I have been around chat sites for quite a while, so if you're looking for a cyber-virgin to take advantage of... uummm... forget it!
I have been in the lifestyle for all of my adult life (even before I knew it had a "name") and I have experimented in many various forms of play. Some I really enjoyed and some... well... it's great for others, but just not my thing. *smirks* I know what I like and what I don't like. I also know there's still a few areas (ok, maybe more than a few) that I might be interested in exploring.
Right upfront, yes, I do have some hard limits and they are: NO KIDS, NO scat, NO rainbow (vomit) play, NOTHING life threatening or criminal (in regards to anything done outside the home), NOTHING permanently marring, scarring, or emotionally/mentally traumatizing, and NOTHING that would cause long-lasting physical damage.
I have lived this lifestyle real time, so I can't say I would be able to settle with an online only type relationship. *IF* I find someone (or he finds me) and we talk and it looks like it has great potential, then we'd meet real time many times before deciding to take it to the "next step".
As with many, I've been burned severely, so while I might seem easy-going and playful in the chatroom, I'm extremely hard to get close to and actually get to know. I have learned the hard way NOT to trust someone simply because it's in their profile or they "say so".
I have been a dominant, submissive, and a slave, all in real life relationships. I am happiest as a submissive slave. I'm NOT a doormat though. I have a brain and I do use it.
I will push limits to see how far I CAN push them, doesn't mean I WANT to be able to push them. *IF* I can push too far, then you're NOT the one for me. It's just that simple. If you can't understand what I mean by that, then I'm not the one for you and I wish you all the best of luck and success to you and your search.
As for anything more... well... get to know me and we see how it goes.
IF you're seeking an online only play partner, or a cyber-slobbering partner, or someone to join your poly household, or a "side-line play thing", please keep looking, as I am NOT into any of that. I do wish you all the best in finding what you are seeking. |
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I'm exceptionally happy to say I've finally gotten my ex out of my life for good! It took me confronting him with his "big secret", but it was enough to make him stay away permanently so I can move on with my life! That's exactly what I am going to do! Damn! It feels great to be alive again! :)
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I love having fun and sharing laughter, smiles, and (cyber) hugs online... just as I do in my every day life. I haven't come online and started roaming chatrooms for "entertainment" but to meet new folks and make new friends. Of course, like everyone else, I would LOVE to find that "ONE AND ONLY" to be with for the rest of my life, but the chances of that happening are very slim. One, there's always the whole "distance" thing, as I seek someone to be with in my offline world. Two, think I'm a bit too picky perhaps because of my fear of being hurt again or ridiculed or whatever else. I find it's very hard for me to just relax and "go with the flow" and NOT goof-off more than someone would like for me to do so. Three... maybe it just isn't meant to be.
Oh well. Life is LIFE! Such as it is.
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