I have come to realize that alot of the so called "Dominants" out there especially the male ones, think that if they chat with you more than once on messenger they can suddenly start ordering you around and expect your to follow their orders.

Ok this confuses me because one when i was looking for my Owner i said very plainly that i would not play on cam or messenger was for chat only. But then i still get so called Dom's ordering me to turn on my cam. number 1 i had no idea who they were, they could have been some 13 yo pervert jacking off on his dad pc. number 2 doesn't anyone actually read profiles anymore

I said i was looking for real life and most of the Doms that contacted me were seeking online. I said no cam they wanted me to get on cam instantly and start removing my clothes.

oh and this one certainly made my day..

The day before Sir and i made everything official, i had a so called Dom contact me from here. we chatted on messenger for a total of 10 minutes.. you know the normal how r u, where u from etc. no sex talk no talk of bdsm at all..

So when i make my announcement of about my new status i send it to everyone on my list so that there will be no misunderstandings.. then a few hours later i open my messenger and find this guy has sent me 10 offline messages cussing and raising all kinds of hell because i was His slave online slave and ordered me to get rid of my real life Owner.. 

omg.. we never even discussed bdsm and i told him up front i already had a Dom that i was pretty sure was going to be the one.

Then another Dom who i thought was a friend, i have chatted with him for years on messenger, he has a sub of his own and it was nothing other than just chatting with him and his sub. Never got on cam or anything with them. but i signed in today and he was onlie it was nice to see him and i said hello he then informed me i was not to speak to him ever again because he didn't need online friends he wanted a playmate and didn't want to talk to me anymore. now this is after 2 years of being online friends.

Is there anyone out there that is sane anymore? omg