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HeadSpace

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HeadSpace - Male Dominant,  Washington | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About HeadSpace


I love to read. I consume knowledge and crave stimulation. Right now, Chuck Palahniuk is doing that for me in droves.

I'm ambitious and commanding. I build businesses for a living (and recreation, which I'm very lucky to say) and I'm detial orienetd when it comes to the bottom line. Did you catch that? Good. You can keep going.

I love euphamism as much as absurdity. You don't get why I'm laughing, which is perfectly acceptable because it's my own little secret.

I'm a thrilling conversationalist. People often begin sentances with "I've never told anyone this, so you're special," when they talk to me. Don't worry, I know I'm special (but that's nice of you to say).

If I don't know you as a person, I'm not going to feel comfortable with beating you or tying you up or humiliating you or whatever elsing you. And no, you can't do that to me, either.

I can touch my tounge to my chin and shoot lightening bolts from my eyes. Which would you rather see? What does that say about you?

I'm way attracted to both aggressive and nurturing women. Statistically, it's best if you're a switch too (because then everyone's always happy), but I guess I can make an exception for you if you're special. Are you special?

All of the important stuff-- loyalty, devotion, privilege, intimacy-- comes with time.

I have absolutely no idea what the basis is for distance.? I've seen people quoter as 76 miles away from me when they live in my own city.

No city is that big.
If you're reading this, you've done very well and have permission to come.?

Remember to write about the experience in your journal.


On Being a Switch: Some people, and in this case I'm stressing some fairly aggressive-sounding submissive and slave females, don't seem to know why a person might like to label themselves as a male switch. Specifically, those people might think that because I am a switch, I am incapable of being as domineering, masculine, powerful or masterful as other male doms. I'm guessing those women are mistaken in one of two ways: I'm not as good as a dom because I don't practice topping/sadism/whatever at every opportunity or a dom isn't going to surprise a female sub or slave one day by saying, "Ok, you spank me now!" like a switch might.? It's an ignorant point of view that ends up keeping those subs and slaves from getting in touch with a switch who might end up being exactly what they're looking for.? It is because I'm a switch that I'm able to understand specific rituals, playing, etc. better than some doms because I have the benefit of perhaps knowing what it feels like to be on the giver AND the reciever end. That doesn't mean I'm an expert at everything I do, just that I have a different outlook.? Also, I'm a switch not because I crave both dominant and submissive interactions with a single partner but because I am open to either as a default. It is my relationship, my interaction with those people thatt determine if and how we play together, sometimes without regard to their orientations.? In summary, to those bratty female subs and slaves who believe that I'm not capable of being all the dom that you want, you deserve punishment.? Be thankful that I'm able to deliver it.


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