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About hcara
A British ex-pat living in Fresno, I first got into the scene many years ago. I moved to Fresno a decade ago. I don't make it to nearly enough parties and munches as I would like, due to having far too many commitments in other areas of life.
I have a very strong British accent. People sometimes have a hard time understanding me, to the point of me having to use Morse code: thud thud thud, thud slap slap slap, slap thud, slap thud thud. Or maybe that was just the brat I was was Topping...
I discovered my kinky side through exploring sex magic back in the 80's, particularly western forms of tantric practice. I love exploring altered states of cosciousness and kink affords a way into many different mind spaces. Gnosis can be facilitated via sensory overload or sensory depravation, and I have come to enjoy both a great deal.
I'm more of a Dom than a sub although I class myself as a switch; I have strong masochistic tendencies and enjoy both roles. Actually, More of a Top and occasionally a bottom is more accurate as far as what I've actively explored over the last few years.
I'm looking for a female sub or slave to play with, to place in predicaments and inflict exquisite pleasure upon. As a very reserved, British gentleman, I enjoy the fact that my instructions are not always followed to the letter (damn that accent) and I sometimes have to apply corrective discipline. Unfortunately, Dommes have been know to use the excuse, "Sorry, didn't understand what you said" to ignore my appeals to stop.
Being British, I am very reserved and not the most forthcoming person you will meet, at least until I get to know you well. I can hide it well in social situations but the reserved attitude is still there. I often hide it with humor. If you are interested in playing, ask. That goes for Dommes as well as subs who want to play. If you wait for me to ask, we'll miss each other by an Atlantic or two.
I am happily married; my wife is a switch (tending towards submissive) but will be out of the country for an extended period of time starting this October. Regardless of her being home or abroad, genital sex is a hard limit for me. So is scat and water sports.
Her
Cheeks
Are
Red
Again
Switch 100%
Bondage 93%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur 93%
Sadist 82%
Experimental 82%
Dominant 68%
Masochist 64%
Submissive 54%
Degradation Lover 25%
Vanilla 14%
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