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About HaveYourCake
Hello to all you BDSMers! I am a college student who has been exploring this side of myself for, oh, maybe two years now? I enjoy many things, and I intend to start publically playing this fall. I love to knit, crochet, read, travel, and dance horribly. I love Jon Stewart, Dave Barry, and Drew of toothpastefordinner. I am interested in exploring my poly and bi sides, and I would love to find a female play partner. Could that be you? |
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I don't think I have an overly complicated profile. I like certain things, I am looking for certain people. And yet... I haven't gotten many responses. That's fine, I don't have a picture up so I totally get that. What bugs me is that all but one of the responses are from men. Now, I love men, I am in a relationship with one. I am open to a poly relationship or a play date with a man... but not one from this site. And even so, that is not the person I say I am searching for.
Am I just a victim of people who send the same damn message to everyone? Or do these men think they are smarter than me?
I recently got a man who said he wants submissive women to play with his women, and then he mentioned money. I am not sure if he would pay me or if I am supposed to pay him, but seriously? Fuck that. I have no problem with sex work. I am all for legalization. But I am not personally in sex work, and nothing in my profile even vaguely hints I want to pay or be paid for anything. Again, if I want a pro, I will seek out a pro. If I want to enter sex work, it won't be here. |
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