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harmony223

I have been in Singapore for about 5 years and somehow, almost miraculously have been able to find decent BDSM play during that time. I also lead the group "Kinky Expats in Singapore" on . I am very submissive; if we get along in normal life I usually have very few boundaries. I'm also intuitive, passionate, and kind. i currently hold a six-figure assistant job for a powerful CEO and my life is kind of like the film Secretary - not in the fun way; just in the sense that I actually am gratified by serving men in "submissive" ways. I think while emotionally I am very much a sub, tho I have played a dominant role with vanilla men and have gotten off on it; so with a switch guy that could be fun to explore too. As a sub I like deep connection and pushing boundaries of control/release, s+m, pain, anal, and non-sexual acts of dominance and submission. As a top I like inflicting light pain and humiliation, acts of servitude, being "in charge", and it's more fun obviously the more powerful the man is in the vanilla world. I don't need anyone to pay my rent, tell me I'm pretty, or show me how to live. I am really not interested in married guys or first-timers either. What I do need is a similarly passionate, creative lover who doesn't falsely advertise and knows himself as a kinkster and person. If that's you feel very free to get in touch. :)
sightsoundbound
 
 Age: 60
  New Jersey