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	I am looking for a female who has interest and capacity for extreme and grotesque pain, both sharp and dull for extended durations; a female who is looking for a real slavish life of humiliation. Things I have done or want to do to a willing female:- a) Whippings, esp. rapid breast whippings with both hands alternating. b) Breast Punching esp. when the female is hanging bent down. I like using bare hands with some metal rings in my fingers. The breasts may be either bound or loose. c) Focused Caning, i.e. hitting the same exact flesh with a cane. d) Extended Breast Suspensions, getting them purple and keeping that way. e) Cycles of Rapid Breast Suspension and Release. f) Unitary Breast Suspension. g) Breast Bondage. At least tight enough for the veins to be outlined. (More on this later.) h) Breast Clamps and applying weights to breasts. i) Breast Stabbing. (With a Cataract Knife and not with a Chef’s Knife.) :) j) The usual Needle Play and Nailing and Skewering of breasts. I esp. like nailing not just the nipples but the actual boob. I prefer smaller nails for delicate nailing and longer and thicker nails for coarse nailing. I like symmetrical skewering. k) Breast Mauling, Twisting. Japanese Style. l) Breast or Thigh or Butt Biting. Med-Hard-Very Hard. Ideally till a wolf bite. m) Focused Poking (not insertion) of needles into the breasts. Either nipples or the fleshier breast. Oozing out of blood is the condition for me to stop poking. Also like doing this same activity with a heated needle. n) Aiming darts on tightly bound, outwardly projected breasts. (With the rest of the body covered safely in a wooden or metal encasing). Of course, getting the darts to actually hit the breast and remain lodged inside is the objective. The darts are often heavy, thick and long. Butts might be a secondary target. o) Using the tightly bound, outwardly projected breasts as a target for metal pellet fired by an air rifle. Love to see the pellets embedded inside the breasts. p) Wax play. All over the body but I esp. like to do it on breasts, nipples, thighs and pubics. q) Demonic Cunt and Ass Whippings and Canings. I like to thrash the cunt (Labia closed and opened both) with any prop till it gets reddish and then blackened. I like to use both power and accuracy during the activity. The primary objective is to render the cunt useless (swollen, bleeding, numb, hurting) for immediate insertion of anything. Another desired objective is that this state of cunt is supposed to last for around 36-48 hours. Ass is dealt with less attention and care. This is because Ass has another use for me. r) Ass Sewing. s) Cigarette Torture, Lighter Torture. Burning or marking the flesh with a lit cigarette. The degree of the burning depends upon the mutual trust and mood. t) Blood draining from the female’s body. Making her live on relatively short supplies but not down to a fatal level. u) Bestiality. This includes only dogs as of now since I consider studs and cattle to be potentially fatal animals. I rule out pigs since I don’t like them one bit. v) Caging. Naked and extended. Even if I am supposed to be out for a couple of days. But all safety precautions would be taken. A mobile for emergency contact and such caging won't happen too often or for too long. w) Exposure to temperatures (not extreme though). Sleeping naked out in the cold (if moderate). Staying inside the rooms with the heater on till sweating. Includes various combinations. x) Starvation. Limited meals to the female. The meals are tasteless too. A typical example being one meal in 3 days and could be extended if the girl is willing and can tolerate it. y) Breast Sagging. This is my major interest. Almost all my energy would be devoted in achieving this. I love to see a female coming to me in prime health, perky taut breasts and then pretty soon getting those breasts to sag down like a 60 year old. z) Face slapping. This would be done randomly and could be the show stopper event in some sessions. The eyes won’t be touched but the lips and cheeks would be hit. No deformation of any kind is intended here, just play so it would be done only to a mutually agreeable level. I like partial public nudity and like my female to indulge in occasional flashing. I myself like to have sex in public or odd places. This was one of the reasons of my break up with my gf. I am curious about Body Mods and I have read a few profiles in which females have expressed a desire of getting BME’d. I have also seen a few clips of BME such as Labia Removal, Tongue Splitting, Nostril Broadening, Labia Piercing, Cunt Ring etc. I find these things exciting, but I am not sure if there are many females willing to get into BME. But if I find a slave who is willing for BME them If would love to do some BME on her. Harmony.

8/23/2011 12:59:13 AM

******I have taken this journal entry from Mr. Alex's profile's journal entry dated 6/2/2011 5:31:35 AM. His profile is by the name of SeekingTrophy, (http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/1235031/details.htm

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I thank him for letting me use his words in my profile. I would say this is a must read for all Masters as well as Slaves, real or wannabes. His permission letter can be found at the end of this journal entry.

I have been around for a while now and would like to share some thoughts that might be helpful for many submissive women on here.

My experience so far shows me that many women don't know how to deal with the hundreds (maybe thousands) of (self-proclaimed) dominantswho are contacting them and how to make a qualified decision who to meet with and who to eventually give their heart and soul to.

Therefore, it is important to be aware of the following facts:

1.) Are there really (much) more dominant men than submissive women?

Every serious study on domination and submission conducted so far has found no evidence that there are more dominant men than submissive women out there. When you look at what is going on on collarme, however, you quickly get the feeling that there are at least five times more dominant men than submissive women. So you should ask yourself why this is actually the case. There are certainly many factors but the obviously most important one is that many men think that it is easier to get a submissive woman to have sex with them and therefore register on sites like collarme. However, this is not the case at all but creates a huge imbalance between men and women on this site that makes things for all truly dominant and submissive people much more difficult.

2.) How can I figure out who is truly dominant and who just pretends to be dominant?

Most fake guys around here are worried that they could be spotted as not being truly dominant. Therefore, they try to sound as dominant as possible in their first message they send you. So if you get a rude first message from someone, chances are high that he is not the person you are looking for, even if you like some things you read. A true dominant is actually more likely to send you a polite first message, without feeling the need to be harsh or particularly aggressive right away.

A second thing that is important is the question if your dominant can clearly articulate what he is looking for and what differentiates him from others. People who sound wishy-washy and tell you (and everyone else) that they are exactlyinto your fetishes without any proof in their profile that this is actually the case, are ususally fake guys who would have sex with just about any woman they can find.

A third thing that is important and often misunderstood by many is the following: There is a huge difference between being dominant and being rude, selfish and egoistic. A true dominant would actually care a lot about what is important to you and what makes you happy and it will influence how he treats you BUT at the same time he will never give you the feeling that you actually have the power to influence him in his behavior and decisions. This might sound a bit contradictory at first glance, but women who have already had the privilege to serve a true dominant will know exactly what I mean: You always have the feeling that everything you do and experience is entirely determined by your dominant's will and preferences, and yet in a magical way your life is wonderfully fulfilling, you are perfectly happy and there is nothing else that you could wish for.

Finally, a true dominant is unlikely to make you address him as 'sir' or 'master'. He will rather have you call him by his first name because he doesn't need any formalities to be recognized as a dominant. It is much more important to him to earn your trust and establish a close relationship that makes you feel comfortable.

If you are aware of these facts and keep these information in mind while reading your messages and clicking through profiles, you will quickly figure out that many offers that may initially sound tempting are not worth your time and efforts, and that you receive actually very few messages that are worth further consideration.

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SeekingTrophy on 8/23/11 at 2:46 AM:

	Hi Harmony! Yes, you can use that journal entry (fake doms vs. real doms) in your profile, as long as you mention my profile as its source. Thanks for asking and good luck on your search! Alex