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Male Dominant, 46, Chicago, Illinois
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Male Dominant, 46, pulaski, Tennessee
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About harleyquin2199
I've been in the BDSM lifestyle for about 12 years or so now real time but My last relationship turned out to be pretty vanilla, so that put everything a bit on hold. I'm a switch, and if Y/you don't care for that, then that's Y/your right; I just don't want to hear it. I've done this long enough to know who and what I am, and I'll never again try to make Myself into something I'm not just to make S/someone else happy.
I'm looking for a 24/7/365 LTR with a woman (preferrably another switch, although anything other than an out & out slave would be fine) who's intelligent, with a good heart, a good sense of humor, open-minded, balanced between being responsible and still knowing how to have fun.
Basically S/someone who complements Me (Not someone who is always talking about what a great guy I am. S/someone who's weaknesses are My strengths and who's strengths are My weaknesses). S/someone who's looking for an actual 24/7 BDSM RELATIONSHIP, not just sex, pain, or some arm candy.
If you're a sub, don't mistake being submissive for being a doormat. I require a backbone in S/someone I'm with. If You're a Domme/Mistress, don't mistake being dominant for just being a heartless bitch with no feelings. I'm looking for a relationship with emotions OTHER than just those associated with sociopaths.
I'm not a particularly demanding Dominant, but mistaking kindness for weakness is a lesson that no sub has ever had to learn twice from Me. I can be very patient, but once that patience is gone, you'd do well to make sure that you are too.
I can also be the most attentive submissive Y/you can imagine. So empathetic that after knowing S/someone for a while, often only a look is needed to display a want or need, whether emotional or physical.
I've always thought that being a switch makes Me better in both aspects. As a Dominant, it helps Me to understand what a submissive might be feeling psychologically or physically at any given time, and as a submissive it helps Me to anticipate how to serve better.
Oh and I suppose I should say a bit about who and what I'm all about. First of all, this is the first time that I've ever been on one of these online sites specifically geared to BDSM personals, so bear with Me if this sounds a bit off...
Personality-wise, I'm a fairly easy-going person, patient, trusting (often to a fault), emotional but not to the point of not allowing logic to come into play, kinda crazy, good sense of humor. And fair warning, I was raised by parents who were VERY strict when it came to manners. So especially when it comes to people I've just met I can come across as shy, but it's really just very polite (especially to women; chivalry is not dead). This is REALLY bad in the lifestyle, where I often get mistaken for being a very soft Dom, but once I get to know someone it's a lot easier to see what kind of person, and Dom, I am. Also, I think that aftercare is an absolute necessity; foreplay is NOT a dirty word; and sex is NOT necessary every single session. It's about power and truth, not screwing. |
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