Is it possible to train a slave, with out her wanting more? Am I wrong, albeit unpopular, to say that a slave and a girlfriend are not the same thing? A slave, in my opinion, gives herself over to one because her needs are fulfilled in total surrender. She may have hard limits that are addressed upfront but, a hard limit should not be that the Dom must fall in love, how can anyone expect that? Sex and love are two different things. Dominance and sex are two different things.

If you are looking for more then a lifestyle in the BDSM community, maybe there are better sites then CollarMe. If the first things we find out about each other are our sexual secrets, it sets the conversation toward our sexual secrets. If this was a place for people who had a common interest in bugs, elephants, or nose hair. The conversation might entail much about bugs, elephants , or nose hair.

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I'm back again. I am on the off again of my on again off again vanilla relationship. I'm 41, I am toooo old for games. I'm looking for a friends. Someone that is looking for a date for a weekend or to come over and watch a movie or something. If sex happens, I am wired more for BDSM than any other. Oh well, Happy New Year. 2013 is the year.

A word about my recent conversations; it seems that all the women that I have spoke with are insane. Why is sanity and submission seem to be polar opposites on this site? I am not saying all are like this, just the ones I have stumbled across. The last conversation was of a young lady named Ruby. Ruby was, in her words, a 20 yr old Dr. who owned horses, was 4 ft 7 with F cups. Really? Dr. Big boobs just wanted to cry about her life and masterbate over the phone. I am not into all this and as soon as I told her to be honest she told me to refrain from contacting. No problem. Is she out there? Someone who wants a lifestyle of the man being the man of the house and the woman taking care of the home. Someone who is tired of playing games and treat this like a fetish dating site rather than meetachristian. com. I'm going to keep searching. If anyone reads this and understands where I am coming from let me know.

Had a great time, thanks lesa.

I am still seeking one who wants the whole package.

Look, it is wierd when a woman gives me there number or I give them mine and they want to move in immediately right? I don't understand the women on here. They are so defensive. It's simple with me. I want to meet someone as a person see if there is a spark, have good hard adult fun and see where it goes. You ask a question to some of the women on her like. How are you?, and they will respond in a negative way. Is there anyone out there who wants to play and see where that leads?