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Male Dominant, 52, Conway area, Arkansas
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Male Dominant, 40, Ont
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About HardtotheKore
Firstly, I am not interested in any drama, I see no point to it. If you're a "pass around sub" go back one step.
I am around most evenings, at times during the day. The humor most days is that I get a kick out of watching my dog trying to steal my coffee, especially when he thinks I'm not watching.
"The Webster dictionary isn't part of a submissives requirements" © Kore
Welcome to my "dark side of life" I am not a dominant, I am more than that. If you want to know me, take the time to read my thoughts, answers and opinions when I have time to express or respond. If you have any questions, feel free to ask.
There are no other words except when I get asked “what are you into” my answer being “the dark side of life” and that doesn’t mean anything evil, it just so happens a case of candles were lit that evening. I will however add into the conversation, “I will touch your soul and when I do, there’s no escape” © Kore
"Come to me wet"
I know who I am
I don't need a capital "M" to describe me
I don't need a capital "D" to describe dominant
I enjoy the sweet intoxicating voice of true servitude and anyone that has a clue about this type of "sweet surrender" knows full well it takes an honest appreciation of the self, knowing who you are and being true.
There are no objectives but following my view of a D/s relationship that incorporates the dependency of the pair. You are owned, possessed and mine to use. Anything less is window dressing.
Dislikes: One that tops. Give me a break!
The ones that mention "I can still turn heads" The answer being, don't let the door hit you on the way out.
Comparisons, what a waste of time.
Preconceptions of what a man that has a dominant disposition should look like.
Yes everything is copyright, everything is mine and since I was here some time ago, noticed "infringements". I suppose one way to be honored is to be copied.
Anything, any institution, any person, dog, cat or wannabee has no rights to anything that I have created, posted, commented or answered to.
Copyright Kore
Update - pointless but an observation.
The word slave does not contain the letter "i" but the word submissive does contain two. After all this time and purposed reading, I have never seen so many "i's" in statements.
I can see the level of frustration and understandably warranted. What's also seen is the undeniable anger when not satisfied with some or all of the above.
Servitude or submissive has but one quality, "in service to". Agree however, in today's world, there is a measure of compatibility and negotiation. Maybe another word or term should be used instead of servitude or submissive.
Instant gratification doesn't work, it never has and if you think it does, there is a dear cost to it.
This is like circus and the one that flies through the most burning hoops is likely the winner (a little toasted around the edges). I still think the toothbrush solution is best.
Good luck, you'll need it including a good messaging filter.
Last mention and most important of all. If who you look for is true, honest, responsible, trustworthy and a friend first, the submissive will allow the connection.
All of the above rings true for the submissive, it's not seen in this place from most people and chasing today seems so pointless. The expectations and "media view of a "dominant" leads a predetermination and often a "disappointment" As if!
WARNING: To all individuals, institutions, web managers and trolls. Any and all a forenamed individuals that are using this site, associated sites and web pages for any type of research, project or trolling be warned that you will never have My permission to use any part of My profile, images or blog entries in any form from this current and future forum. Using any of My personal material will be considered a violation of My privacy and will be subject to swift legal action. |
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~The basics~
Honor your man because you are the reflection of that man
Follow the rules, the agreement that was and is the guide
Hide nothing, express yourself, I want to hear your heart
Give me everything, all of it, the best of yourself
Never lie and never deceive because you dishonor me
I punish you because I love you
I punish you because you love me
I will honor you
I will protect you
You are mine
The KISS factor: Keep It Simple Stupid
It's all in the mind, this is where is starts and continuously evolves.
Therefore ~The Basics~ will only work if it is believed.
The belief for the man is that his girl trusts, honors and respects that man for who he is.
The belief for the girl is that her man will love, adore and protect her because he is "obligated" to do so. She is also emotionally dependent of her man, therefore holds her heart and soul.
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Maybe this is a better solution.
http://www.hellfirecaves.com/
http://www.bdsm-sanctuary.net/ |
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Observations 101: Having been here for some time.
Pass around slave and that means: If you ask a question, be prepared for the answer that you may not like.
Looking for a real Dom: Infected behavior and generally has been through a bit of "trauma".
A true and honorable Dom does NOT emotionally or physically abuse the submissive and certainly doesn't set the submissive up for failure.
Soul mate: This is what's used and misused
It is so rare to be in the company of what may be considered a "soul mate". The "lifestyle" offers a very narrow choice because of misconceptions and mostly because those same misconceptions that require ... tall, dark, handsome, experienced, virtuous, honorable, etc etc. At times if one would actually look and take the time, can find that one person to begin the "soul dance" because that's what it is, if between the two "accept" one another for who they are. The "soul dance" can only begin when acceptance and the desire to remain connected is mutual, honorable and truthful.
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Something to share and possibly someone will learn. The documentary, "The Century of the Self" is one of a few that should be viewed and understood as "the times of today and the beast within". Control of the masses is far different than control that is offered in search of the true self.
As I have spoken of many times, "there is a primal need that has been sequestered for a very long time" and should be examined as the true self. |
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"Never be blinded by your surroundings because if you are, you'll never see Me" Copyright Kore |
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"In order to understand Me, you need to understand yourself. If you want to know Me, you must know yourself. I know My place, you need to know yours" Copyright Kore |
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"The advantage to this type of a relationship is the bond through trust and honesty that makes it open and complete" Copyright Kore |
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Come to think of it, what was I thinking?
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