I am a loving and caring guy, very sexually-motivated?and I love my kink. I thrill to the situations of power-play. I thrill to the gift of your submission in just the same way that I can be hard and implacable. I am at home in either world, if the chemistry feels good between myself and another, then it feels good, end of...
I'm not a person who lives his life inside BDSM/Ds thinking all the time - it is something I live in my sex life and the control which goes on outside of the bedroom is, for me, like foreplay; a prelude and something to keep the sexual tension high. My vanilla life is very active. Not to say that I don't have days/evenings away from my commitments.
I'm generally very honest and upfront with people, a great communicator; I don't believe in repressing thoughts or feelings - I prefer to have it all out in the open and would help me if you did too.
