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Male Dominant, 49, Norman, Oklahoma
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Male Submissive, 40, Nashville, Tennessee
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Male Submissive, 40, sarasota, Florida
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About HardEdge
Old Style Dominant, Parental & Experienced.
What Were About:
RACK:Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. We are spiritual, progressive, artistic, self-employed, involved in community, heart-centered and parental in our dealings with submissives. We are both sexual and spiritual- and find place for both in our lives. we learn from such community leaders as Deborah Addington, SlaveMaster/Mike McDade, Midori, Jack Runella, Frank Strona and others. We are stable, grounded and live a very comfortable life- we are not in NEED of a submissive, we simply desire one as we have love to offer and love to receive.
What We Want:
naturally submissive male with or without previous experience who wishes to serve us in any way we desire while receiving love, nurturing, guidance, discipline, training, self-awareness and the destruction of self imposed limitations in return. submissive will have interest in houseboy service, slave submissive, gopher, puppy play, limit pushing and will have defined fetishes. leather is not a requirement. submissive will be interested and intrigued by community involvement (discreet) and will attend monthly group parties and meetings with us. submissive will be in good physical and mental health, will have a job or attend school full time, will be open and honest in all dealings, will have no other DOM/sub relations online or otherwise and will be open to a very thorough inspection and interview process.
Training:
The prospective submissive we seek will be trained in the following areas of 'real life':
etiquette, gentleman behavior (irregardless of gender), house maintenance, financial abundance, integrity, honesty, grammar, history, self-improvement, spirituality, music and theatre, art and culture, self care and hygeine, confidence, egoless pride, etc.
The prospective submissive will be trained in the following areas of 'scene life':
dungone etiquette, community etiquette, voice and non-verbal commands, posturing, dress and appearance, toy/implement care and storage, safety and cpr/emergency care, history of bdsm and the old guard tradition, pain managemenbt, spiritual work through bdsm, interactions with other Dominants and other submissives, restrictions, food service, reception service, party service, guest service, pet care, care of My personal effects and needs, time mamagement, financial management, self exploration, etc.
Keep in mind that I interact with My submissive in way which I feel is 50% traditional Old Guard/BDSM lifestyle and 50% parental in nature. You will be treated as a beloved child, a respected emplyee and a valued love at every moment.
Discipline and Punishment will be awarded at my discretion and will always fit the transgression of rule. You will always be made aware of my satisfaction and my dissatisfaction and will be ready to accept the consequences which follow your behaviors.
What We DON'T Want:
Liars, thiefs, drug junkies, lazy asses, needy vampires, 'curious about the lifestyle'ers, submissives with many online or virtual relationships or submissives with the desire to live off of us instead of live alongside us.
Our Fetishes & Play Interests:
We are both fans of leather and rubber. Single-Tail, flogging, caneing, impact play, knifeplay, piercing, fire, ff, w/s, fucking, roleplay scenarios, puppy play, furniture, mummification, breathplay, sensory deprevation and many other areas of interest. We DO NOT practice play techniques that we are not competent and educated in. Many of the techniques we employ we have also received to be truly in tune with what they are about. We are not adverse to hook-ups or plamates in the BDSM arena until the right boy is found; at the time he will receive all of our attention.
Before Contacting Me:
You will check your desires and have a good understanding of what you seek.
You will search online or through your own resources and familiarize yourself with general etiquette and specifically old guard protocol.
You will request permission to interact with me and receive permission before continuing any dialogue via internet or otherwise.
You will be prepared to receive whatever I feel you need, and receive it as a vessel without limit.
You will have read this profile in its entirety at least three times and have formulated at least three specific questions related toi the content herein to ask me once we have established communication.
You will use the internet or other resources to familiarize yourself with the teachings and life of three individuals: Fakir Musafar, Guy Baldwin and Jack Rinella. You don't need to know much- this is a simple test of your initial obedience and desire to impress me.
How You Will Apply:
Interested cansidates who feel that they meet the criteria expressed herein and who have prepared the above stated requirements (especially the initial request to approach) will send an email with the following information:
* introduction
*why you responded to our profile - what you liked about it
*your experience in this lifestyle
*what city and area of that city you live in
*your work/school status
*two photos of yourself, both with face shots and without nudity.
*who of the aforementioned three individuals you felt more connected to.
we will reply to your inquiry whether we like you or not- and expect that you check your email daily to see if we have written. a prompt response from to you to all subsequent letters from us is required.
The Interview Process:
We believe in full disclosure- and so we will be up front about our interview process. we thank the previous boy who served us for helping us realize the importance of knowing this information.
the initial face-to-face meeting will be a chat to establish trust and check the chemistry. if a second meeting takes place, the deadlines for parts of the interview process will be outlined and will begin being due by the 3rd and 4th meeting. applicants should prepare and expect to share some personal information with us- as we will do with them. the following information will be required by all applicants once trust has been established and our information will also be given to them in honorable exchange of truth: *current drivers license * verificaiton of employment * meeting at your place of residence *infectious disease screen (at our cost-the pesence of such disease does not rule any person out from being accepted) *listing of emergency contact information, allergies, medications and limitations *and a few other such inquiries.
At the point that the above is presented over the course of the first several meetings, the contract for service will be drawn up and the actual D/s relationship will begin. If you feel that you might have an issue with any of the above, taking into consideration that your private information will not be shared, nor will we make any 'noise' at your living situation or place of employment, you can procees to application.
We do follow many old-guard protocols.
submissive will be given regular reading assignments to help familiarize them with the traditions of BDSM and the power within the community.
You Should Know
We are both well trained ourselves, and carry both high expectations and a high amount of spontaneity in our training. To date we have trained 3 boys- all of which were intended to be temporary from the beginning to help said boys through life crisis. We both enjoy playing as bottoms but NOT submissives on occasion (i.,e. being flogged, whipped, etc.) and some submissives have issue with this- it will not change. We train very much in line with what is taught by the prominent BDSM teachers SlaveMaster Mike McDade, Jack Rinella, Guy Baldwin, Midori and Frank Strona- you can check out more about their styles by searching the internet. We encourage all questions and invite anyone and everyone to openly contact us with dialogue after first receiving permission to approach.
we look forward to hearing from those who seek to become truly enlightened by their own hidden power.
With love, respect and enlightenment as the goal..
J.
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