Hanjalina

You are absolutely correct! Maybe my judgement is rushed? Maybe I didn't give you the consideration you truly DO deserve? Maybe I confused you with someone else? Maybe you are still waiting for me to send you another message? I tried to respond to every message. I had over 30 pages of messages in less than a week and Lord only kmows how many there are now! Exchanging messages is not something that is my life's ambition. Seeing how it was quickly overwhelming me, I did my best to get some to tell me more, to elongate, to give me more than sentences that were less than a dozen, less than HALF a dozen and even ONE or TWO word messages will NOT get my attention, and for sure won't KEEP it. And, I STILL needed to eliminate choices. The furthest went first. And I WANTED to eliminate those who were out of state, but I just couldn't. There were too many who promised relocation and the age group I'm looking for are at that point where that isn't all that hard to do. No, I won't support you or pay your way or even promise anything more than a possible meeting. I am not pursuing you, it is the other way around. I would suggest YOU have a good plan in place if you pursue people out of state for long term relationships. Maybe I'm pretending to be something I'm not... I AM inexperienced at this Domme, Dominatrix, Mistress, whatever label you want to make it and I never considered myself to actually BE one, All I know is that I have a very curios and kinky side and I want to explore it. That will NEVER happen unless I am IN CONTROL of it though... NOT you or anyone else! Maybe I am not worth your time and effort, but there are plenty of others who DO want me. I am only writing all this because I FULLY believe in meeting people online. Many are genuine, but just are not the best at writing or communicating, or a tons of other reasons. I just sincerely hope I have not discourage anyone from TRYING and putting their best effort into it!

AARRGGHHH.... Not only do I have TONS. Of unread messages, my responses are getting LOST!!! AND, now, to top it all off, I keep getting bumped off! Im ready to give up for the night!

My mind has so seriously been wrapped in sexual desires. I have been trying to hard to put into words - articulate - all I want - all the visions and though speeding through my mind. It is a seemingly impossible task! That is why I put a pretty much bulletted (so to speak) 'wish list' on my profile and ask so many questions. If I hit on nerves, I figurred you - as the possible man I am searching for- would expand on, but it's turning out to be more like pulling teeth from a shark! I realize my wants are not the same as everyone else's and I may be too much, or not enough for some and possibly moving too fast or too slow, but I need something to work with... one line comments and answers just don't cut it with me! This place is for finding someone to meet our mutual needs, which should be similar, corrrect? I'm hungry for depth! Go out on a limb and tell me what you REALLY want! Tell me WHY you want it! I want to know every tiny detail, your emotions and feelings, the way your body reacts, your thoughts - in this world, NOTHING is too strange anymore! HEY, at least TRY!!! Make an impression! Write me about YOU!!! Write in a way to make it so I wont stop thinking and fantasizing of YOU!

OUTSIDE the US: There is nothing for me to even consider. Any messages will be sent to BULK MAIL and never read OUTSIDE FLORIDA WHY? What sort of "Relationship" can be had with us living HUNDREDS of miles away? Unless you come to my area on a regular basis and plan to relocate IN THE NEAR FUTURE - and I DO expect, at that time - YOU to deal with all the living arrangements.

I want a MAN I AM a woman and I LOVE being a woman. My home is a woman's domain and I will have the last say about anything inside it and I don't care WHO owns it! In other words, I welcome help around the house with chores, but I don't want or need a domestic slave. I am also over 50, so know how to bathe, shower, shave, etc. Again, help is welcome, but I am not looking for anyone to be my masseuse or grooming or personal slave, however, that's not to say it will never be required of you. (Now sex slave... that's another story altogether!) I am THE WOMAN and NO ONE else will be the "wife" of a relationship I am in. That being said, I have no real interest in having a sissy, other than in role play and possible punishment and/or humiliation sessions - meaning very short termed and, ideally, 'forced'.

AGE IS JUST A NUMBER Following is how I replied to a 26 year old with a phenomenal body who wondered why older women won't give him a chance. This is my PERSONAL OPINION and I believe there are many women who would snap him up in a heartbeat out there... they just haven't found each other yet! There are several reasons why we say you are too young the first (with me) is that I also have family and you would need to be explained to them in some way. My family is very, very traditional and strict. Although my life is mine to do as I want, I do not flaunt my private life to them, nor want them to even know anything about it. I love and respect my family and do not want to have to deal with disapproval, which would mean staying away from them, which I choose NOT to do. From my family, no second thoughts would ever be given to a man close to my age. I also have 3 sons, all of which are older than you. I can't help but think of them and their friends when approached by a younger man who wants anything sexual of me. What is worse, is that you are even younger than them, which puts my mind to a child - even though you are obviously a full grown man - and I am too maternal to even think of a child in a sexual manner. Another thing is that we grew up in different eras. I had a conversation recently with one of my sons girlfriends - again several yaars older than you - about phones. I remember rotary phone and even phones that had a 4 - prong plug. She said she saw a rotary phone in a museum and wondered how it even worked. This all came up when she couldn't remember what to call the blue thing on the sidewalk that superman changed in. And, finally, at least for me, women, as a rule, no matter how beautiful they may be, tend to have negative body issues. Those issues get compounded as the signs of aging start appearing. Seeing a beautiful man in his prime and then imagining being naked with him magnifies every minute fault to a point where, no matter what is done or said, I would only be put through agony at even the mere thought of him seeing, or even touching my naked body in a sexual manner. Those reasons came to me in an instant, with absolutely no thought given to the matter, so I'm sure there are bound to be more reasons, but I'd say any ONE of these, never mind the combination of them ALL I personally have is a good reason they say you are too young. Messagages from anyone younger than 40 are bow routed to my BULK MAIL and I probably won't ever read them. This number will be changing to 45.

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