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handsome1971

Male Switch, 42, New York City, New York
Male Dominant, 59, Richmond, Indiana
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About handsome1971


First: Chat and IM doesn't work for some reason, better to write me instead.
Second: if you write to me I will probably ask you and confirm with you that you read all my profile and my details as 99% who like my pictures and write me don't do that! So be prepared and don't be offended if I ask it ;-).. and please don't just message me for curiosity about my situation and such things that will lead to nothing but waisting my time, I think I've been very honest and quite detailed in what I wrote. Other questions about life and interests are welcome.
I AM JUST FED UP OF PLAYERS AND TIME WASTERS ON HERE, ...! and NO I am not a bad man despite what you are thinking of my details !!... NOT ALL MEN ARE BAD ...By the way I only put my pictures on when I am online then take them out of course when I sign off. If you can't see them, you can message me and agree on a time to be at and I can display them or use the webcam (both), sorry I don't send them over. Actually the one I have on is just similar to what I think I look like, I don't put the real one.
Sometimes it's hard to say things about ourselves as it can be subjective, but let's say I'm peaceful, quiet, respectful and respecting, very clean, nice body and have a life. I’m not-typical to what is the standard around here, I’m very accepting when it comes to age and look and such, our society is very harsh on insignificant aspects of human life such as look and status and age..etc, so materialistic and unfortunately many ladies follow that perception, either being the ones judging or the ones intimated with that..!, and when I say this it’s not because I look ugly, in fact slender and well dressed.
By the way I'm a shy guy and don't talk too much but at least I'm well educated and polite. I'm not a red neck, dirty, snob nor rude. I'm intelligent, a gentleman, easy on the eyes, always respectful and hung. I might sound like someone who is afraid of getting dirty but actually I like to get dirty on jobs, been there done that, I also like to work with my hands in different things. I'm not looking to change my situation and not looking for someone looking to change their situation. I'm just being realistic, so feel free to write me if you're interested in different cultural flavors:). I do speak three languages by the way, so bear in mind we did not all grow up and share the same cultural or societal or religious or linguistic environments, so being open in that sense helps a lot.
My Ideal Person: A clean woman (age not that important). Someone who needs to meet but not with any one, a woman who is looking for a friend (does NOT have to be sexual). Culturally open to other cultures and just a kind lady. Not into bar girls, complications, troubles and drama. Looking for someone who is a soft, feminine, non-judgmental, clean, discreet, hard worker, independent, maybe solitaire, have her own place, is over any drama or emotional situations and all settled down. Maybe someone I see every day in the street or on the bus or at Walmart!.
I am not single (married) so if you have read this far you are aware of this. You need to be someone who is one on one and not having dozens of guys online chatting with ..AVAILABILITY is the key, if you’re not sure pass to the next profile please ..I'm all what I asked for and more ... My philosophy is to under promise and over achieve. You need to be someone who is patient and can accommodate my situation, I need to chat a lot to exchange ideas and get to be closer in mind and like each other. You'll be looking for me when you see me online not just me looking for you. So many time wasters, I went through so many deceptions all the time, mainly because many just have too many on their plates!. I need friendship first, not sex first, a connection with chemistry. I need someone stable, emotionally and more.
Peace.
PS : It's handy to have a webcam to avoid disappointment and filter liars out. I got one in return. And by the way I'm still trying to understand why everyone thinks cybersex whenever they hear the word webcam ! do people sometimes just use it to see human faces !.
I am NOT looking for a counselor or psychologist or advise givers, time waster, curious, sex trade workers, spammers, undecided women, smart asses, weirdos , pervs, drug users, sickos ..etc.. SAFETY FIRST. I'm very nice with people either online or in real life so please be nice too and don't email me biatching on things, either be positive or just leave people in peace. I'm someone who respects other's privacy and limits and I can promise you one thing, if I ever get a negative behavior/experience/reply wtih you then you will never hear again from me, I'm too serious of a person and very disciplined.
Another PS: I have no time for ladies who don't bother reading profile and just like the easyway by getting the guy to tell them the whole story as they're tooo busy. RESPECT is MUTUAL. People spend time writing much about themselves just for YOU so please at least be courtous and do your reading part;-).
Last PS: If I put "Long-term" for what I'm looking for it doesn't mean I'm looking for a wife or something like that, I mean that I am looking for something that lasts as friends or more, regular not for one night, one week or one month, hope you are the one.

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