I am 39, I have never married or reproduced, and try to keep myself in good health and general physical condition. Currently, my career is in the field of biotechnology (which is way less cool than you're probably imagining).I have a sarcastic/self-deprecating sense of humor, stay busy with my hobbies (fishing, my crappy band, home-recording), but earnestly seek an outlet for my life-long interest in the lifestyle.
I am seeking a long-term dedicated relationship with a like-minded kinky woman. As for my interests, well, lacking hands-on much experience, I am a little vague myself. I feel drawn to the role of bottom, but not at the exclusion of submissiveness by any means. I find it difficult to wrap my mind around the concept of slavery, especially since everybody's definition seems to differ.
So, if you're interests run towards testing and challenging a willing (or perhaps reluctant) subject, in addition to maintaining a normal, healthy, mutually pleasing relationship, we may be a match.
Oddly, I could envision myself playing as a top. I don't have a dominant streak, but I like the trappings of BDSM enough to where any play would be quite interesting, if that makes the least bit of sense. It's not a strong enough drive to list myself as a switch, but I figured it's worth mentioning in passing.
I have had the opportunity to play briefly a few times with some of my friends in the local scene. I've earned a few bruises, and become completely clear about my enthusiasm for BDSM. I hope I am able to find a connection with a true partner before I am finally driven to concede defeat and give up my search and my dream.
