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Male Submissive, 48, los angeles, California
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Male Submissive, 48, Woodland Hills, California
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Female Submissive, 27
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About HalleyGirl
Ideally, I'd like us to be amazed by each other before we even get to the scene stuff. To be talking and laughing and interested and then, when we want to play, be highly compatible.
I'm a writer and a complex, dynamic person. Heavily tattooed. Adventurous. A pop culture geek and a movie fanatic. Also girly. I want to start slow and then surprise myself. And you.
I giggle when I'm nervous, and I'm nervous when I meet new people. So there will be giggling. I'm very talky, and socially assertive; even bossy on the job. I'm very curvy and busty and "BBW" (for want of a better word). I like my body the way it is. I think you will too.
I'm in New York, just a couple of miles north of the New Jersey border.
I am interested in a real-life relationship that encompasses, but isn't defined by, BDSM. I am not interested in married men.
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Just for the record, I'm a real live human woman. Not a Nigerian scam artist, and not a 900-porn line.
I met someone who said he wanted a friend, lover, and submissive, all in one woman. And that made me feel wonderful, because that's exactly who I want to be to the right dominant. Except the minute he got on the phone with me, for our very first voice contact, he started describing an explicit sex fantasy. Which is fine, y'know? Except it was too soon for me, and when I asked him to slow down, he hung up on me.
That is completely and totally not okay. I am not here for fantasy fulfillment, except as mutually, consensually chosen. I know lots of people are very happy to leap into a smutty phone conversation, and I have no judgment against that. But I want to be friends first and smutty soon (but not too soon) afterward, and if you can't respect me about something so simple? Well, how do you expect me to let you do something that requires real respect, real safety, like bondage?
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I get the impression that my boundaries are more closely guarded than people are used to encountering with a submissive girl. When I give myself, I give fully, but I don't give myself until I decide to, and I warm up slowly. I start out nervous.
Like anyone over 30 who is single, I've been hurt. More importantly, I've been stalked, so I'm super-careful about giving out personal information. I have a public persona which is easily Googled, and that's been used against me.
Most importantly, I recognize within myself the vulnerability of a submissive. I want to please. I want to give in. I want, in short, to submit. Until I'm clear I'm not endangering myself, I have to be cautious. I guess because I don't have any natural inclination at all to be guarded or to give less than 100%, I force myself to do so, and force makes me strict with myself.
I've seen someone be so surprised that I was loving, and soft, and available, when the time came and it seemed right. But to me, that's who I really am, and in my heart, who I was all along.
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