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There must be a Single Domme out there who I hope to earn the privilege of being one of Her best friends as well as Her personal slave.

True love is giving 110 %without expectation, and being grateful for what ever comes back.

i am Very respectful, and respectable, honest, dependable, accommodating and, trustworthy, i believe a Woman's home is Her Castle, Her man ,... Her personal servant/slave .
i'm a handyman by trade, and very commented to what ever i'm working on. i take pride in a job well done. i Am resourceful.

i’m 'No" dummy, i do have commonsense.

i’m A good conservationist but quit until I get to know you,. i am a person with deep feelings.


i realize that,… in order to be a submissive, one most first and foremost learn to be Respectful of those, to whom you are perusing to submit to .


( i'm Disease free and in good health), except currently recovering from a stroke,.. which i am making great progress.

Intentions ;

Interested in exploring this lifestyle. Always wanted to be a Special Woman's personal servant/slave, She my Queen, to who i'm to submit, honor, and serve for Her convenience, Her amusement and, to answer to Her needs. Her's to toy with, explore with, grow with, be with, and belong to.


Interests

Meaning; things i offer and lay at Your feet. NOT a laundry list of things You must do with, for me.
Just things at Your Deposal to enjoy when, where, why, You desire and, to do as You wish with.

Please Note;
my( interest list ) .anything with curious means;
No experience but do wish to explore.

Pony/play

This means, i'm interested in becoming a cart pony ( for my Queen ), but have no experience yet. ( i have wanted to be a cart pony boy since i was a young boy,. way before i know the term.)

i am also interested in exploring with bondage, control devices, obedience, submission, and slave hood.
i hope to gain some new friends along the way. Sorry! but,.. i'm Not looking for one night stands. Other Interests include; i work on my own projects, property ,I listen to Country, Easy Listening music, 50s, 60s, and 70s music & i love to dance free style. Lately i read BDSM info to try to understand my life long desires for this type of lifestyle.

Other
personality Traits;

I always treat others as i wish to be treated. Driven to do what’s right. i am a Caring person, compassionate, considerate, charming, helpful, attentive, affectionate, loyal, bluntly honest but, with a good sense of humor.


( if we don't laugh at life,... the stress well kill us).


i Try to bring out the best in others and, try to be encouraging. i believe we should leave people better then we found them.

Appearance

i'm told i look like i'm in my mid 40's, not bald, no disfigurements and,. Lou no movie star
but,… not bad !, with graying hair and, hazel eyes.

What else i'm looking for;

i am looking for a long term relationship ( LTR ).


No i'm not looking for multiple sex partners or Poly life style .


Communication, Companionship, Trust, Friendship, and Respect.


Without these Five, there is no foundation to build any relationship on.


Relationships are like trees in that,... the faster they grow, the easier they're up rooted and/or they're branches are broken during the storms of life. Where as the trees that grow slow and hard,.. become strong and can bend and twist in the wind, withstanding the storms of life.
Things well need time to workout slowly and take the time to grow.

Open two way Communication is an important ingredient in relationships. In this life style there needs to be a lot of open two way communication in order for this kind of relationship to workout, She is ;

OH Well,...after all, I am not looking to replace my Mama here. It's what is in the heart that counts . She is also;
A leather and lace kind of Woman who,.. is looking for a sub/slave male who would be there with the intent of enhancing, enriching and librating Her life. Easy going, with a Sense of humor, Smart, Appreciative, Down to earth. She is one who wants Her slave/man to make Her feel special.
She would be Honest, Respectful, Trustful, and yet,...Not impossible to please. She would welcome having a guy around that would do for Her because She enjoys it, and, because WE/we both know She deserves it, not because i just feel She is not capable of doing it Her self. Someone with the above could easily win me hands down,... And i could become all Hers.
She,. like me, can be new to the scene.


i could be interested in learning with a New or, Younger Dome with the right Person in the mean time with - No strings Attract.


She need not fear that i'm just seeking ((or) expecting any sexual favor in return. This would be purely Platonic.

Sorry but,... I'm not interested in anything with a guy involved,
To be sure there are no miss understandings.

She is born female. No TVs, M/F couples (married or other wise), gay males, one- nighters, torture, ( patron the term,) bitch top, Poly, or feminist trapped in a mans body, or nor am i a sugar daddy.

If any of these are Your thing,. then, sorry but,.. then i'm definitely not Your Thing.
Honest,. and playful. She loves to laugh,… even if She enjoys laughing at Her slave in humiliating ways some times.

She is a feminine kind of gal, who knows that being Feminine is not a weakness instead,... She knows that She can be both Feminine and a Domme too.

If She is A sweet, petite, wait proportionate to height Woman (that’s an extra ), with long straight hair (another plus ), shiny hair again an (extra plus ) (any hair color,. even graying to gray). It’s not the hair color,..( It’s what You do with it {or,... should I say ?,}… how You’d like to make Your sub/slave deal with it,. to Your liking) ?.
would love and appreciate a Single/sub/wm who wants to be all about her.


Hi!, New to this lifestyle.



Available for ownership by a S/DOMME/F who is looking for a male sub/slave to train for long term ownership.

What i can offer;

i'm Highly Considerate, enjoy doing for that special Woman in my life, catering to Her, seeing that Her needs are always meant and, that she is as comfortable and as content as possible. Waiting on Her, , Wanting to please Her, Putting Her feelings, Her desires, Her Goals, and Her Interests first( above mine ) has always been top priority to me. I am a sensitive and kind hearted guy, sincere, comforting, consoling. For those moments when life brings the need. You can count on me to be a good listener too. And,... yes i understand that you need Your Owen space, when and where on Your Owen terms.
Allow i am intrigued with the ultimate power of a, cuckolding situation would offer and, would hope to find a woman to whom i could be that devoted to. But in reaility, i can not, nor would i perform anything on or with a male.
Well,... i hope this gives you reason to take the next step and drop me a line. i'm not good at web chat do to being a poor speller, so bear with me. Still learning to use computers. Looking for R/T not cyber Time.
Please send G pictures only.

i’m patiently waiting for you. Stay safe, Sincerely, hairslave
12/29/2012 7:02:28 PM

This ATM Machine is permanently out of order. But,. that doesn't mean that a woman can't find ways, other then those of monetary gain, to enhance her life.

 

I have been away doing other thing now that my health life is mended. So if you want to reach me don't feel rejected if I don't answer back right away.

 

So if you wish to reach me don't feel rejected if I don't answer back right away.

To all. Have a very safe and Happy New Year! hairsleve

10/11/2010 4:05:58 PM
It has been awhile since my last entrey.
 
i Am still working part time, Volunteering and have spending a lot of time out at my camper this Summer.

My recovery has lead me to returning back to a normal life again. 

Every time i do things out at my camper i realize that i am very lucky to be able to do them. Just two years ago no one had ever thought that i could do the things that i am doing these days. 

i Am still looking for a woman to expolore this life style with.
And Cart pulling Ponyplay /being a woman's
pony boy is still something that i am intrested in expoloring as well.

i think i could intertain a possible slave/relationship with even a younger woman or Lesiben couple.

i Am well aware that at this stage of my life, that no younger woman may be intrested in a 56 + guy but maybe there is a younger woman in my area who would welcome having a guy be Her slave,. to serve and cater to Her in a platonic relationship. A guy who's desirer would be to safetly serve Her and  make Her feel speacil, short time or as a lifestyle.

Well,... after all what could WE/we lose by trying Right?! 

Thats it for now from my corner.
Posibly Your
 hairslave
12/25/2009 5:17:42 PM
Hi! all! I have been busy with the next step in my recovery. i Am now working part time. My new job leaves me very tired so that is why i have not been on for a while. As i ajest to working part time, i Well be back on CM. Soon i hope!

In the mean time ,i also Hope that you are having a great Holiday Season. i Know that i am. This is the best Christmas since my strokes back in 06.

Stay Safe hairslave
3/19/2009 6:31:27 PM
The tragity of Natanha Richards is a good exsample of how quick and easy it is to end up with a brain injury. This should also show that no matter how insunifacent a head injury is, you or your love one, needs to play it safe by being checked out just to be on the safe side.
No brain injury is to small to concert with or to savure to lose hope.
Ladeis, Stay Safe!
2/5/2009 2:35:18 PM
i Am finally starting in a volunteering postion tomorrow. This is a new step in my recovery. Hopefully this well help me to become even more useful to a Domme of my future. my Indurance of walking is getting better and this new opertunity well help me to futher improve myself. i Have a willing heart and i am still working on being an able sub for some luck Gal.
1/29/2009 6:20:51 PM

i Have to share something that is near and dear to me. Are You aware that this Sunday always has the highest percentage of Domestic Violence of the year? Supper Bow Sunday should be Domestic Violence Awareness Sunday. Now hopefully there are no Dommes who well personally experience abuse this weekend but,… You or anyone else who reads this,. may know someone who could experience it this weekend. i Hope not, but because this is such a big problem in our society today that,. i wanted to bring attention to this issue today. There are people who are ready to help victims of Domestic Violence at any time. Here is a National Hotline that everyone should have out for immediate use if needed. The National Hotline is 1-800-799-SAFE or 1-800-799-7233 Or visit www.ncadv.org and, to find an office or Hotline in Your area just Google Domestic Violence ( then Your state). In Maine call 1-866-83-4help or 1-866-83-44357 . Or visit there is also Caring Unlimited in Sanford Me. mail@caringunlimited.org

1-800-729-7298

Are you aware that in this life style, that once anyone crosses the line ( your Limits ) it becomes domestic violence. This isn’t a Mail bashing issue either. Things can build up to a point that it can quickly get out of control. Both Abused and Abusers can become a victim in this and both need a support system in this. If at any time a man or woman realizes that he or She has just became an abuser, they can man up that fact and seek out professional help,. if he or She really cares for the victim they will and if he or She does then they to need a support system too.

In my opinion, if the abuser refuses to seek out help, even if not for his or Her sake then for the safety of his or Her victim,.. then they aren’t a victim,… they are a criminal and should be dealt with accordingly.

No one deserves to be abused, at any time or for any reason! i Remember an ad out a few years back that said “ A “Real” man wouldn’t hurt a woman “ i agree. That goes for both physical abuse and emotional abuse. i Wish this ad could air through out this weekend.

Anyway i hope any victim/survivor well weigh in on this. Now it‘s your turn to speak out on this. Maybe what you have to say on this will help a victim of domestic violence find their way through their tuff time now as well. So share You stories and past experiences.

Together,.. hopefully W/we can all save others from ending in a tragedy, as to many of U/us have known of through the years.

Ladies,. Stay safe!

11/16/2008 7:27:04 PM
my recovery is still inproving. Now i am intreset in speaking out about Brain Injury Prevention and Awareness. i well from time to time put up informational  things on here about Brain Injury. i don't want to bor the mesage boards with this so i will just put it here. In the mean time if there is ever anything you or some one you know who should want to hear about this from a Brain Injury suvivors point of veiw, just ask me, i welcome questions on this issue. We/we all know of someone who has suffer a head injury or a stoke est. i want to help with awareness and prevention in any way i can. Stay Safe, hairslave
9/25/2008 5:34:32 PM

My recovery has brought me to the place where i can walk with out assistance now except out in wide open spices. Now i can see that i can be hitched to a cart and be able to pull some lovely lady around on level ground. The resistance of the cart would allow me to stand and pull despite my balance problem, not that I am ready for racing for a long shot, just ready to once again be able to fulfill a life long dream of being under the direction of a lovely lady, who is setting there enjoying Her absolute power over my wile enjoying the ride.

4/23/2008 4:06:45 AM

This is a work in progress. Last up dated 4/24/08

Well it is great the spring is finally here. Now I can go out side and enjoy the out doors.

4/8/2008 4:16:55 AM
As You can see by my picture, taken last Friday that, i don't have any unsightly deformities.

 

4/6/2008 6:32:42 AM
  i have finaly got a picture on here so you ladies can see what i look like. i am making progress on my recovery so i well be useful to a lady soon.
11/30/2007 4:15:28 PM
I had a stork in Noveber 06, I am now still in recovery
2/11/2006 6:55:22 PM
Just want to wish all ladies who visit a very happy valentines day .
SlavefortheBEST
 
 Age: 26
 Madrid, Spain