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About H4ndCuffs
After some exploration, I've realized it's time for a profile and direction change. In my daily life I am a confident, intelligent professional. I am always composed and in control. But behind closed doors I have an uncontrollable desire to give up control, or rather, to have control taken from me.
I am such a control freak in daily life, and it is so stressful. I need a strong mistress to take that control away.
I have always had a fascination with being restrained. When I was little I used to play make believe. You know, the usual, I was the hero fighting the bad guys. Except, in my play time fantasies I would get captured. I used to have these plastic handcuffs and I would cuff myself to chairs or tie my legs.
Now I love the feeling of metal cuffs against my wrists and ankles. Giving up control is both terrifying and exhilarating. I need a dominant woman to push me past the fear.
I am a little bit of a masochist. I have a fairly high pain tolerance, but I have a hard time inflicting it on myself. Given the ability to easily stop the pain, I take the easy way out. I would like to experiment with my thresholds and limits.
I am fairly new to all of this, but I do have a little bit of experience. It was all on the dominant side of things, and I discovered that I did not enjoy that at all. I am a submissive.
However, I am not a slave, and I am not looking for anything permanent or 24/7. I have a life and a professional job and would like to maintain that. So discretion is also extremely important. I will not post any face pics on here, but would be happy to provide them in a private message.
I'm looking to learn, explore and experience. Anyone of any sex or orientation is welcome to message me to talk about anything. I am ok with online play, but hope to find someone that I can build enough trust with to meet.
I can be shy sometimes, to please feel free to send the first message!
Look forward to chatting and learning :)
Thanks for reading,
~J
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Female Dominant, 23, sydney
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Male Dominant, 28
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