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Dominant Couple, 44, yorkshire
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Male Switch, 40
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Male Submissive, 29, New York
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About gustopher
If you are married or otherwise involved, please move on. I am not polyamorous.
I'm an educated, professional woman. Submission calls to me because it allows me to be who I am without having to pretend to be something I'm not. I expect that a good M/s or D/s relationship allows all the game playing that goes on in the vanilla world to cease and desist.
I believe that in a real D/s relationship, there needs to be trust and a brain-to-brain connection before any body-to-body connections occur. I can have sex with anyone but this is more about the power exchange and feeling safe and secure with he to whom I give control. To me, this isn't just about sex, it is all about the power exchange.
I am not interested in a hook-up and will not "play." If you are interested in getting to know me, expect to talk to me on-line for a while before requesting photographs. I need to know you and trust you before I will share my face with you.
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Life is too short! If you want a caring, loving, faithful, selfless woman who will do anything for the man that wins her heart, you know where to find me. |
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Could really use a hug. Very sad today. My dad died two years ago today and my friend lost her Daddy and Dominant. Killed in the line of duty. RIP. You were one of the good ones.  |
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Been working out - joined a six week challenge and get up at 4:30 am to do a boot camp class 3 times a week. My legs are already so much stronger. Met a Dominant and thought it was going well until the first kiss. Too wet. Yucky. Such a turn off. Feeling sad and lonely. When am I going to find someon? |
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Coffee: The nectar of the gods. |
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Decided it's time to work on me. Giving up white flour and refined sugar. The girl in me is already having a temper tantrum. Strap in, this is gonna be a bumpy ride. Eek!! |
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Went a munch last night. It's hard for me to talk to people I don't know. Wound up sitting on my own and watching. Wonder if I should wear a sign saying "Hi, I'm shy. Please talk to me. Also, I love hugs". |
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Haven't been very good at keeping this journal updated. the girl in me finds it tedious. Just came back from 2 weeks in New York. Spent 3 nights and 4 days in Manhattan. What a hoot!!
Anyhow, my search has been frustrating. I find many Dominants are kinksters or tops only. When I do identify a real Dominan,I find he's already got a sub or slave but is willing to play with me. I want so much more than that!! Pout. |
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I've been on this site for some time and I've been out and about in the local community for about a year. I guess it's time for me to start writing about what I'm experiencing and see if my path has been walked by others. Stay tuned. |
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