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rewrite.......

it is so easy to loose sight of what is important. so much easier to make connections and get ahead of myself. what i need is still very much as i initially described in the following paragraph:

seeking consistent, well mannered, controlled, firm, somewhat playful yet in charge without a doubt, on line Dominant to take charge of my daily activities. Someone that has both the time and finds enjoyment in tasking a girls day. rewarding her with granted permissions or giving proper discipline if she doesnt meet the mark. a connection, consistency, and concern for this girls well being are very important. this girl NEEDs the help and guidance of a good Dominant. my goal is to find Someone that can provide efficiency to my day thru motivation. i lack purpose without a Dominant, someone to please. without purpose i struggle desperately to find the motivation. that motivation comes from a connection where One finds the right combination. This girl knows what needs done each day, she needs Someone to do it for. Someone at the end of the day that will be proud. daily communication is vital both to start the day and close it. countless hours on the computer are not beneficial but morning and evening check-ins are a necessity for results. Micromanagement is overkill and not productive. this girl needs Someone she is receptive to, craving more and more of Him, and Him with the wisdom to find the healthy balance for her.

Daddy types are a huge draw as much of me is very baby girl. the nurture and soft tones, the emotional connection and twinkle in the eye that comes with a good Daddy is what feeds this girls need to please. structure, accountability, and consistency are the balance. pushing is the only way to know if those qualities exist, this girl does push. when One is willing to listen, think, and apply according to who this girl is it all comes together beautifully.

i am not a cookie from a cookie cutter mold

sincere and serious Ones only please, as i am both. should initial contact come from me it is because i have read Your entire profile and something speaks to me. for any initial messages to me please leave something that says You read my profile. it would also be helpful to leave a name for me to address You by. Sir, Master, and Daddy only apply once You have taken charge of this girl.

thankYou notes regarding me and my profile:
i am very private, with good cause. actual logistics of my profile im happy to share once trust is established and it becomes relevant.
yes willing to relocate is checked. Should an online bond form that is healthy and productive for both, i am willing and capable of relocating.
i am submissive not passive. i am strong, smart, and capable, in need of a strong Dominant to give me purpose.
11/3/2011 4:17:19 AM

if you back me into a corner i will bite. this doesnt mean im not submissive, this means i am human

10/27/2011 11:55:44 PM

"Sometimes people put up walls, not to keep others out, but to see who cares enough to tear them down."

~thankyou shadow, the emotion i feel to a tee in rough times

10/27/2011 12:04:23 AM

it is how people treat you in the worst of times that really matters ~ something i am reminded of most recently

9/21/2011 10:26:58 AM

ps: true Dominants in both Texas and Australia please have a chat with Your fellow man as they are giving Dominants and Men in general a very very bad name

9/21/2011 10:23:31 AM

i am confused at the alarming number of "dominants" posing the question of how i will "prove" completion of my task and "prove" my follow through of set discipline. i am both confused and i spose annoyed with the lack of respect not given to this girls simple requests stated in her profile.


a big Thank You to all of those Dominants that have taken the time to send respectful and thoughtful messages as obviously You are the only Ones actually reading:)

8/30/2011 1:18:44 AM

consistency is vital

8/26/2011 12:37:08 AM

it has been brought to my attention by a few that titles, (especially that of Sir) should be used as a simple sign of respect. in many fashions i agree with this. however for the purposes of my profile request i would like to point out the wide variety of persons on CM, many lacking any quality that would allow such a simple sign of respect. should You doubt me, please try being a girl on here:) i suspect Those that behave in a manner that allows a simple sign of respect will be understanding and respectful of this girls request.

vivydowling
 
 Age: 34
 Afton, Minnesota