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	About GuruofBDSM Is it so hard to find someone between 18-53 that is single, with no kids that doesn't have: 1)Tattoos 2)Piercings and doesn't: 3)smoke 4)drink(only if I allow you too) 5)do drugs (you know the kinds, yes even that 420 crap) And little to no experience in the lifestyle. *News Flash: I don't do online Doming! I don't cyber gasp* A male that doesn't cybersex?? It's like the real thing~ it bores me. Some misleading terms used on this site: Ass play: spanking,anal,rimming..ect.. watersports: Golden showers, Getting wet by water hose or kept outside in the rain. Sex in a pool/lake/water. Public Play: Hugging/fondling while in a line at a store, being forced kissed against a car/vehicle. OPEN SHOW OF AFFECTION** is public play! If you think it's public sex play..you are over thinking this lifestyle. There is five aspects to this lifestyle: 1) Communication 2)TRUST 3)Honesty 4)Love 5)Fun Without the top 3, there is no 4&5. I have been Active in the Alternative lifestyle since I was 14. I am a TRUE Dom sensual but firm, meaning I don't bark/yell commands. I am a second generation Dominant, like my Father before me. I am known to many as a Daddy Dom, a mentor/Guide a trainer. I am not like other Dom/Masters you might have come across, I am not abusive, repeat NON ABUSIVE! There is a difference between play and abuse, I know it. I have been with many subs/slaves/switches/Dom-mes and even a few Vanilla that wanted to try BDSM (all from young to older, short-tall, thin and big). All of them like my demeanor and play style. I have learned what it's like to be a sub, from being one to listening to concerns, questions that come up. I am loyal, passionate, honest, open-minded, loving, genuine, outgoing, giving, considerate, witty, devoted, a diabolically charming smile and personality. Seductive, powerfully persuasive, assuring, hypnotic. Intelligent, makes eye contact, strong in mind and body with an inner confidence and a powerful nature. Encouraging, demanding, yet compassionate, appreciative, patient, and caring, Sensually and artistically creative, experienced. Playful/sexual, sadistic,teasing, affectionate and firm when need be. Words that are so true: "" A Dom who displays sensitivity will be a Dominant who is sensitive to you. A Dom who displays humility will be a Dominant who will show you respect. A Dom who is not afraid to cry will be a Dominant who understands your tears. A Dom who is quiet will be a Dominant who will hear your quietest whisper. A Dom who knows fear will be a Dominant who will not leave you to face yours alone. A Dom who will listen to a child will be a Dominant who will always work to understand your words. A Dom who can stand alone will be a Dominant who will not crush you under His weight. A Dom who controls themselves with ease will be a Dominant with the ability to control you in the same way. A Dom who does not have to prove their point will be a Dominant with worthwhile points to share. A Dom who never makes demands will be a Dominant who treasures anything you give. A Dom who doesn't run after you will be a Dominant you will never need to run away from. A Dom who is calm will be a Dominant who can weather your storms. A Dom who has walked the path to peace will be a Dominant able to guide you along that path. A Dom who does not shout will be a Dominant who will never deafen you. A Dom who knows themselves will be a Dominant who will have time to know you. A Dom with an open mind will be a Dominant who never stops learning. A Dom who never stops learning will be a Dominant who never stops growing. A Dom who always seeks to be the best they can be for you is the only Dom truly worthy of being called Dominant."" Yes I do enjoy other things aside from pleasurably tormenting my sub/slave, I love the outdoors, camping, enjoy Fishing, Horse back riding, Billiards, Cooking/dining out/In, Theatre(stage) and theaters/Cartoons(Adult Swim Rules!), Driving my car and rocking out with my stereo system, Playing video games/console/computer, swimming, walking, music, dancing(slow), bowling, picnics in the park, quiet romantic times at home with that special someone and being in her arms. I love moonlit walks under the stars, romantic rainy nights, walking near a creek and listening to nature, lying on a blanket at night watching the stars and clouds travel through the sky. intimate talks and knowing all your secrets and you knowing mine. I like to laugh and have a good time. I like the romantic and personal attention that a couple should show each other, the little things from the touch of a hand to the curling up on the sofa together. Some of my favorite things to do are: kissing, touching and holding hands, I'm looking for a partner for a long term relationship. No game players please. . . Good luck and happy fishing!!!

So tired of the porn star pics being passed off as members on here. You know who you are and where you are from. Also the over weight ones crying about the over weight guys?? Seriously? talk about the pot calling the kettle black. Learn respect, A Dom has just as much of a choice to choose you as you to him. If your single and have been for 10 years with this "dream " of finding Mr.Right..get off your high tower and walk the garden Princess, you are just as ugly as the duckling to other people.

Out of the 7 years I have been on and off this site..I have only met 4 real people that knew what this lifestyle really was. Too bad there is so many mainstreamers here wishing for a kinky sex partner under the banner submissive or slave. This is not a dating site people, it's really a community based forum.

I have no respect for a so called "woman" who posts nude pics of themselves, while claiming to be submissive. if you don't respect yourself, how can you expect a Dom to respect you? This info is not new, it's a old code of conduct that has been around since the 70's for this lifestyle.

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