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Accepting Positive Change

Aren’t we all sick and tired of having change from the Government and our employers put upon us?  Are we so exhausted from all the change we have no control over that we fail to pursue the change we should on our own behalf.  We have so much personally unproductive change thrust upon us that we hardly have the energy or desire to look at making positive change in our own lives.  Our lifestyle is not for the weak, be you D/s or M/s.  A good long lasting relationship in our lifestyle will be more active and more dynamic than the humdrum of vanilla longevity.  If we are to properly do what we have chosen, we must seek out and embrace positive change.  Life is a journey where are we to continually learn, change, and grow.  We owe this to one another and to ourselves.

Is There a Difference between Submissive and Slave?

It has been rather interesting to read the words of proclamation that a girl is one or the other, often accompanied by some reference to not being a doormat.  What does all this mean and where does it come from and is there really a clear area between one and the other, submissive and slave?  I suggest to you that there is not a difference and only a mindset of discomfort in terminology.  I further suggest that this mindset of reluctance to consider one a slave comes from, a bad experience with a dom/master, and/or a lack of considered understanding that comes from experience and training in our chosen lifestyle.

Both a submissive and a slave give up a degree of control over themselves in their chosen niche of the lifestyle.  Since we are not here to judge one variation of choice over another then each are equal to the area and degree that they have a desire for a worthy male to surrender that aspect of themselves, to give up control to another by free and consensual choice.  Both slave and submissive choose to submit or to be submissive to the dom/master.  To submit is an action, where submissive is a description.  Slave is a person.  Can we agree on the inherent sexiness in the term slave?  This is a shift in mindset that should get the juices flowing.

I am amazed at the continued huge growth in our lifestyle.  But with such rapid growth, much like in our own economy, problems have grown as well.  Girls come here with feelings of a void that needs to be filled.  Men are meant to be skilled hunters.  Yet there are men who are unskilled, or worse, are skilled predators and misogynists.  Unfortunately, there is no effective way to send these undesirable men to Devil’s Island.  So we have a rampant situation where good girls are regularly victimized by both unskilled and undesirable men that leave the girl more wounded than she arrived.  Poor doms harm girls by being bullies rather than learning the art of Mastery.  And this is where the unfortunate aspect of the term doormat comes in.  There is an improper mindset that a slave has given up her mind.  It is a foolish man who attempts (as it is impossible) to possess another’s mind as a girl has a mind of beauty and a wise Master wants that in His life.      

It takes intelligence, skill and hard work to possess a girl who seeks to relinquish some part of her.  This is not an endeavor that should be taken lightly.  It is our honorable job to assure the girl that she is safe and secure to allow her chosen dom/master entry into her psyche as we must go there to bring our gift of Mastery.  Welcome slave girl.

Master Gunnn

It's Not Easy For A Master Either.

 As I continue my search for one girl to complete me, my home, and my life it is quite interesting how much that I must cut through just to reach near the beginning place.

The lists, guarded requirements, and issues are very demanding and often times a good girl is lost just because she is too wrapped up to open herself to that which is right there in front of her.

The bottom line is if the Master does His job properly then all the lists the girl has become unnecessary as she is fulfilled by the true nature of the Master and what He brings to her.  And onward we go.

Gunnn

The decision is made, long overdue.  Yes it is time to place the order and get the Sybian into His stable. 

Apparently, this will require having extra towels on hand as well...lol...so nice.

Gunnn

It is time to address some of this internet silliness that goes around.

This whole notion of under consideration is ridiculous nonsense made up by some internet dom.  What seems to be the reason for such?  The answer is, there is not one that is sufficient or good.  A girl is here to make her choice(s) and the men need to realize that as true.  Just because a girl decides to converse with one in particular, baby-dom feels the need to build a silly cyber wall and piss on it to mark her, as what?  The girl will take a collar or she will not, that is the bottom line.  Anything short of that is merely the reflection of some dom’s insecurity.  A girl will do what a girl will do regardless of this silliness in trying to block her from communicating with others.

Happy New Year.

Gunnn

It is always good to know a girl who wishes One to value and raise her self esteem as opposed to her seeking some man-boy to further degrade her value as a good sub/slave. 

We are are created equally,

then our choices make us who we are.

Some people are no good and never will be.

It's the little things that make the big differences.