Gungho1a

The freedom of an individual is something that they can choose to give away...the Freedom of society is something that some of us will die to protect.


Well, here's some philosophy from a 49+ year old dom who's played this game or lived this life for 30 odd years:

There are three types of people on this site, those who know what they want, those who think they know what they want, and those who don't know what they want. It's very simple really.

Everyone has a niche, for some of us it may be quite mainstream, as far as the alternative 'lifestyle' goes, or it may be only for a select few, and rather dark and extreme. Whatever it is, it's YOUR niche...don't feel bad about it. I'm happy accepting my tastes, as broad and diverse as they are, and I'm content in my sexuality, and I'll respect yours.

Domination and submission, to me, aren't able to be closeted. I don't put them away when I go to work, I don't trot them out on weekends. The genre to me IS real life, part and parcel of the entire continuum of my time on this earth - it is part of me, substance of my soul. That's not being poetic, or waxing lyrical, it's a simple statement of fact. I am what I am, know what I am, know who I am - and understand that no matter how much you scrub, you can't take the stripes off the zebra.

Am I seeking? Probably. Am I available? Yes. Am I caring and considerate? Yes. Am I a bastard when the time is right? Very much so. Am I a dominant? Yes, I'm a very type A personality, 'jock' male...I thrive with submissive women and understand that I do not relate well to non-submissives in a relationship.

Negotiated limits are there for a reason - safety and security. I will not compromise this, for my reasons as much as anyone else's.

The genre, whatever your bent, is beyond the physical. It is about the mind...grab 'em by the mind, and their hearts and balls will follow (obviously a generalisation - I ONLY play with women).

I am not a fetishist, but I do understand those that are...and yes, my tastes do extend into the extreme, but that's partner orientated and not as a single want or need of my own.

Be aware that I have little respect for 'wanna be's' or those that are fooling themselves, and this covers both dom/mes and submissives. Simply labelling yourself is not the true path, and fantasy is not reality - learn the difference and enjoy life.

I've thought about adding this, as it may perhaps assist someone here at some point in time if they should ever read it:

As a submissive, you aren't a doormat unless you want to be. YOU are responsible for your choices, and ultimately, for much of your mistakes. A lot of people here need to take a good steaming dose of 'harden the f*ck up' with two teaspoons of 'get over it'. Perhaps if you have had too many bad experiences, this lifestyle or genre is not of you.

There you have it. A small part of it, but just today's words of wisdom.

A couple of final things about me - Warrior philosopher, law enforcer, travelling my own path of righteousness. Always willing to travel with friends. Knocked around a bit fighting society's battles, but all the bits and pieces are still there and working...

I could ramble on here about what a great guy I am and blah blah blah, but what the hey, drop me a note if you are interested or want to chat.

I should add that I am also a paradox, a sensitive dominant who cries at sad movies or news clips, but who has lawfully taken life on behalf of society, and done so willingly, is good at it, and enjoyed the thrill of combat. It needs to be said...

Have a good one and enjoy. Stay true to yourself.

Apparently some people think disclaimers are necessary in their profiles. I don't. Just remember though, if you use any of the stuff I have here, I can hunt you down. And I'm not nice...

Should also mention that I'm not unaquainted with 'doggie' girls.