wonder why some Indian females (dommes?) are asking me about other (indian Domme females?) here on Collarspace. ?Kindly ask the concerned person directly, LADIES :)
For all those who are into bdsm , or are just getting their feet wet. please watch this video
:// ? ? ? ? i seek a true DOMME wife/girlfriend... and wish to lead the slave life 24/7. very little limits and posses a very adventurous and active lifestyle out of the bdsm world too. ? my future WIFE has to be taller than me and stronger physically! ? i prefer an INDIAN WOMAN who is a DOMME... but seems like most here are fake or only around to make a quick buck...hence if YOU are an INDIAN WOMAN, contact me only if YOU are sure of YOURSELF ?and what YOU seek. and yes.. please read my profile!! ? European and American WOMEN who are DOMMES.. i would be glad to chat with YOU. i travel for work a lot to europe and US and real meetings might be possible in time... ? ? i AM hardwired to be submissive and find it difficult to cultivate vanilla relationships.i'm experienced in the BDSM lifestyle, so there are few kinks that would surprise or shock me. ? i value discretion and do not have photos in my profile, but will gladly provide them in correspondence.
i have always been naturally submissive to women; how could I not be? Yes, a beautiful Woman will make my knees shake, but beyond physical beauty, i am totally turned on by a Woman with intellect and an awareness of Her power over men.
Nothing arouses me more than a smart, confident (and kinky) Woman. I love all Women, but a truly powerful, superior one makes me want to drop to my knees and kneel at her feet. At the end of a long day, nothing brings me peace more than laying at my Domme's feet.
In my private life, I am an intelligent, educated and career-minded professional. I am extremely hard working and driven, but also very friendly, kind and laid-back. I am the quiet, introspective type; I generally don't speak much, and can come across as withdrawn. In reality, I am just shy, and it takes some patience to get to know me and pull me out of my shell.?
i am an independent, capable person and hope to apply whatever skills/abilities i have to making my Domme's life more enjoyable.?
i have always had the desire to serve a Woman since i was kid before i even knew about sex. But when i was a kid i only had one fantasy which is bowing to a Women and kiss Her feet of course my interests today are way more wider in BDSM. When I ask my self why do i enjoy serving women way more than just having a normal relationship i don?t find a logical answers to that. It is not fun to clean dishes, taste a boot and wear a collar. But i don?t know why i just enjoy it ?when a Women humiliates me, forces me to bow to Her, orders me to clean Her house, or ?insult me.
?As a sub i understand what does it mean to serve a Women and putting Her need and wants? above my need. To my Mistress i will always obey and do her orders wether i like it or not. If you like to know more about me feel free to ask?
I'm here to find someone I can call Mistress, Domme, Ma'am, Owner -- whatever you prefer -- whom I can devote myself completely to. I want to find someone I can respect, admire, trust completely, and fully submit to. Call it a female-led relationship, call it submission or slavery if you want; the need to submit runs deep in me, and I need to serve a deserving woman. I crave it, and it completes me.
Ps.If you have not read my profile,don't write.I may be a Sub,but that does not mean I am mindless.
i will trust you, because thats how i was raised. if you break the trust....it reflects your upbring!
for what i choose to eventually become................................................................................................................................................ a cuckold husband as below.........
In a Cybelian marriage. The wife is the primary partner, the one in charge. The husband is the secondary partner. Both parties must be aware of, and agree, the tenets of the Cybelian lifestyle. One of the tenets is the woman's freedom to cuckold the man by having sex with as many other men as she chooses. In addition to this freedom, there are two basic tenets: The first is that the husband will have no freedom; the wife will keep him naked and collared at all times when he is at home. All of his clothes will be locked away, and his wife will have the only key. The second is that the man's status in the household will be no greater than that of a toilet for his wife's use, and the use of any other females in the household. Keeping a man naked and collared ensures he is mindful at all times that he is ruled by his wife, and has absolutely no freedom. Unless his wife allows him to dress, he can't leave the house. If friends or family arrive, he must remain naked and collared, so that his shame will be visible for anyone to see. This is a great leveller: the man will learn his place, and in so doing he will lose much of his natural male aggression. It is still not enough to completely tame the man. This is where the wife's use of him as a human-toilet comes in. Whenever the wife needs to urinate, the man has to immediately drop what he is doing, and lay beneath her with his mouth open wide, then swallow all of her urine. This will be done as many times during the day as the wife needs to urinate. Should there be guests present, the man will still have to submit to being used as a toilet even if the guests witness his abject shame. All this is necessary in a gynocracy, where a man must be reduced to as low a status as possible. In urinating on the man, the woman is doing two equally important things. Firstly, she is keeping the man in his place by showing her contempt for him how better to show contempt than urinating on someone. Secondly, she is ensuring his continued good health by making him drink her urine. The beneficial effects of drinking urine have been known for many centuries. In modern times it is called urine therapy.
Finally browsed thru the 50 shades of grey for about 2 hours. Found it elementary to say the least.
Although a good start for the novices, maybe like the lady who claimed to be 'experienced in bdsm' and later told me how she loved the book. Makes one think.... :)
wonder why some indian females (dommes?) are asking me about other (indian Domme females?) here on Collarspace. Kindly ask the concerned person directly, LADIES :)
wonder why some indian females (dommes?) are asking me about other (indian Domme females?) here on Collarspace. Kindly ask the concerned person directly, LADIES :)
For all those who are into bdsm , or are just getting their feet wet. please watch this video
Banked in a hotel in london.... reading TIMES OF INDIA and i find this news
The times of INDIA today reports death of a guy. This guy got into an argument with a WOMAN , the WOMAN squeezed his balls so hard that the guy died on spot!!
Domme or What???
wonder why some people wont specify exactly what they are looking for here!!
what sense is it for a lesbian DOMME to say she is also looking for submissive men and then mention separately in HER profile that she is only looking for females!! a total DUHHH.... moment!
good day to all my DOMINANT and submissive friends!
Passive femdomme--
This kind of domination although age old in india and i am sure many countries around earth..... is often unnoticed!
its the most common form and even the so called conservative societies across this planet practice it.
It is always were the WOMAN is in COMMAND! This form of domination extends beyond sexual and physical control and largely psychological and verbal.It is not restricted to just the immediate submissive male partner, but crosses over to the extended family which may include other younger and older WOMEN and men.
in the INDIAN context this is usually seen in married couples who live in a nuclear or joint family setup. The LADY of the house calls all the shots... from whats for dinner, to where we all shop,whats the best time for vacation..what time everyone gets lunch etc.
It might not seem to be domination at first , but a lot of WOMEN guard this privilege fiercely and had it not been for control would'nt do so!!
'JORU ka gulam' is a common term used in the indian society.It translates to - WIFE'S slave' literally speaking! This term has been used for ages and the society has learned to live with and accept such men!
these men always are controlled by their wives in terms of almost all their activities. They are even denied sex , incase they fail to obey their wives.Now this is not necessarily done by downright refusing sex as a reaction to being disobedient , but more often the WIFE pretends to be unwell etc . thus preventing release for the man.
Its a very interesting concept that has been existing in the INDIAN society since time immemorial
PASSIVE FEMDOMME
Is this something my readers are familiar with.............????
if not stay tuned to know more!!
been noticing a few dommes on indian website for a few years now.... their age hasnt changed!! :)
Massive urge to take a strapon today!!
real indian domme in india! fact or fiction??
i want to be used today!!
What do DOMINANT WOMEN seek and what a submissive man should ideally do....
(doesnt assure YOU of success, but will surely multiply YOUR chances....
It’s fair to say that there are some commonalities that most (if not all) dominant women will look for (none of which are physical traits). The first is that a prospective submissive/slave be honest and genuine. The honesty should be a no-brainer. Trust is the single most important aspect of a D/s relationship, and trust is impossible without honesty from both parties. Being genuine, while similar, may not be quite as obvious. There is a natural tendency to act or speak in a way you think she wants you to. The problem with that, however, is that you don’t actually know what she wants yet. She is trying to size you up as a person, which means she needs to get to know you – the REAL you. I understand the desire to “pad the resume”, but even if well-intentioned, this is still a form of dishonesty. If you are new to submission, and have no idea what you want from a relationship, the best thing you can say is, “I’m new to submission and have no idea what to expect, BUT I’M WILLING TO LEARN AND TRY NEW THINGS.” (Assuming you really are willing to learn and try new things.)
Having good manners and displaying common courtesy are also high on the list of desirable traits. One posting Mistress went so far as to state that good manners are an “aphrodisiac” for her. How much more of a ringing endorsement could you want?
A willingness and ability to follow instructions is also a fairly universally desired trait. This can often be demonstrated from the start. Begin with a Domme’s profile – AND READ IT. Hopefully, they will say enough about themselves to give you some idea as to compatibility. She may describe what she likes (both in a D/s context as well as vanilla interests) and what she doesn’t like. Does her list seem to overlap with yours? If yes, then that’s a good start. She might also give instructions on how to contact her. FOLLOW THEM. Think of this as the first test – if you can’t even get this right, she’s not likely to waste a lot of time on you. If sending a note, be sure to include the information she asks for and try to tell a little about who you really are. If you share interests, especially vanilla ones, mention it. Be polite and write well. This is not the time for text-speak. Use actual sentences and check your spelling and grammar. Also, at this point there is no reason to even bring up the acts you wish to perform or how badly you want to be “split open by her strap-on.” Not only is that in poor taste and a turn-off, but also suggests a fundamental lack of understanding of who’s in charge. And do I really need to add that at this stage she probably has no desire whatsoever to see a picture of your manhood?
Be as utterly candid as you can about what you hope to get from a relationship. If you’re really only interested in bedroom submission, say so. If you’re looking to explore the lifestyle in as full a manner as possible, say that. Are you interested in providing domestic services (i.e. house work)? Avoid the “I’ll do anything for you” trap. “Anything” covers a lot of ground, my friend. What if she says, “OK, wash my car”? What if she wants something you’re not prepared to give? Admitting that you don’t know the full extent of your interests and limits, but that you wish to explore these areas under her guidance, could go a long way.
It never hurts to learn skills that might be of interest to a Dominant. Are you handy around the house or in the kitchen? It wouldn’t hurt to learn. Do you know how to give a massage, or at least a good foot-rub? There are classes for that. How about learning to care for leather or latex garments? The internet is full of sites dedicated to this. You can see how these and other skills might be considered useful, but don’t claim a skill that you don’t have fair command of.
One “skill set” to be careful about would be those things generally considered unique to the submissive/slave population. There are books, articles, and web sites dedicated to things like “protocols”, submissive behavior, slave positions and the like. While having a fundamental grasp of these concepts can be useful, I would caution you against committing any one set of instructions to heart. There is a very good chance that what a book teaches and what your eventual Mistress wants will be two different things.
So, getting back to the original question – What do dominant women want in a submissive? They want a submissive that is open and honest, genuine in his portrayal of himself and genuine in his desire to submit. They want good communication skills, obedience and a willingness to explore new possibilities. I’ve seen more than a few state that they want someone who recognizes that she is a person first and a Dominant second. It’s important that you be willing to learn, particularly from your mistakes. The things that make you a decent human being – like some selflessness, a sense of humor, good organizational skills, a decent personality, and not being too terribly full of yourself – will also help you attract a Dominant. A Dominant that sees this sort of a package will see someone that she can work with, and mould into her idea of a perfect submissive/slave.
It is an unfortunate reality that men who self-identify as submissive are a dime a dozen. The task of finding a Domina has disheartened many, in part (I think) because what they perceive to be “what a Dominant wants”, in fact, isn’t. My list is certainly not all-inclusive, so I would welcome feedback in the form of more ideas that others may find helpful. (I’ll also try to answer any questions that may have been prompted by this essay.) As you take that first step and contact a Dominant, remember to be honest and sincere, and be yourself. Show her what you’ve got to offer, and let the rest happen in due course.
Have come across profiles of dommes with one line messages!! wonder whats going on in their brains!! :(
Read an interesting article on the psyche of a submissive last evening!! also talks about the dominants point of view and its reach in the society at large!!
any1 interested in reading write to me for a link!
i have come across many so called domme profiles with fancy names.... they even check out my profile :)
whatever name you have as your profile id and whatever you mention in your profile... if you dont have that one thing which makes a domme... you aint a domme lady!!
if you dont know what 'thing' this slave is talking about..... forget it and go back to your vanilla lifestyle or fooling men into giving you money(losers) :)...........
YOU will know what i am talking about if YOU have it..... period!
For some reason seems like there are more DOMINANT WOMEN in Delhi than i MUMBAI.....???
however quantity does not necessarily reflect quality!!
Interesting weekend this last.....
actually met an'INDIAN' Domme in person.... we chatted over various beverages... for about 3-4 hours!! everything from vanilla to bdsm and even shared our likes with each other....
best date ever as i could be absolutely myself 100% and genuine without a mask!
i enjoyed HER company although it lacked chemistry from the word 'go'
was polite enough not to say it to HER face though and thought should give interactions and thought sharing a chance...anything else and it would have been shallow..... very very shallow!
SHE surely seemed to know what SHE was talking about atleast most of the times when it came to BDSM, but then how could every1 know everything!
after a long evening, SHE asked me if i wanted to meet up again.... i paused(mentally)~
but then believed HER to be true and real and wanted to give interaction a chance and said ... Sure i would be glad to!!
plans were sketched out and possibilities evaluated! few hours after we split, there were email exchanges... and SHE even said'some other more personal details could be answered and exchanged later!!
WHAT A DREAMMM...!!! :)
my search for the TRUE -INDIAN DOMME continues in its 11th year!!
uploading some of my personal images soon...... hopefully that will filter out the fake or wannabe dommes that flood the 'domme' pages of indian section on CM.
are there any 'real' dominant woman in mumbai or delhi, who 'know' bdsm and can conduct real time sessions! i am very real and can prove with photo and cam! are YOU
to all the so called Dommes in INDIA.... domination is not prostitution! so before you put up your profile as dominant, understand its meaning and understand BDSM.
to all the so called male slaves... the above applies to you guys too.... dont pay any bimbo to spank you... that is just bullshit.
to all the real dommes and slaves----- patience is the key to this lifestyle , atleast in INDIA.
i have been patient since a long time.......... have met with a few dommes, they were totally fake and had no clue about BDSM.
i will not name them here, but any slave looking for more info can write to me.
Into: Bondage, caning, whipping, spanking, spitting (receive), strap on, just to name a few. Possibly forced bi and forced feminization.
That’s not up to me....it’s up you. It's not about me....it’s about you!
Just so you know, my desire runs so deep that i am willing to go, to what some people would construe, the extreme.
I want to experience a total state of helplessness but only for the right person.
To make myself a real slave, for the right person, I want to put myself in a position of total helplessness. My desire and level of commitment are very real. The right person i would be drawn to would have to be a real controlling dominant with at least a sadistic overtone.
