Sorry for not updating sooner, but I am no longer looking for anything more than friends.? As a note; while I will talk to most everybody initally, I do tend to get along? better with those possessing more dominant personalities...

? I try to return the courtesy, respect, honesty and consideration afforded me, by proffering the same in return. While some is given,?all can be squandered awayinto non-existance.... Am currently looking for friends with whom I can be more open with, that would be willing to help me understand myself better and grow more fully into who I need to become, while assisting me in balancing myself out along the way. I have not yet had the pleasure of being in a true D/s relationship, but have had friends kind enough to "enlighten me" if even only briefly... I consider myself to be submissive, not a slave, mainly due to the fact I am not able/willing to hand myself over fully to others to the extent that I would have absolutely no input into my own care, treatment, etc... Retaining my own voice and having somewhat of a say is important to me. Currently I am not sure what "type" of submissive I am, and am in fact still trying to figure that out myself, even as I grow and change... Part of growing, discovering, and better understanding myself, is learning my likes, wants, desires, needs, hard and soft limits (many of which I hope to expand, given time) along with what I'm willing to compromise on, to what extent, and where all the lines lay (and how blurry they might be in given spots). Right now my only hard limits (that I'm aware of anyway) are anything that would cause damage (physical, psychological, and/or emotional) or otherwise pose some sort of health risk either directly or inherently.

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~ and because I'm lazy, I am leaving my original profile listed below, until I have more time to redo it all the way.... most everything still applies...as I'm much the same ~

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I crave physical contact, I love to touch and be touched. Above all else I want a friend who I can connect with and explore myself with on many levels. I enjoy RT play but don't want constant interaction... ? No BS = No stress I am open to most everything, except, that which will cause damage, or is unsanitary (playing with pee or poo, that sort of thing) --- all else is good, or at least open to suggestion. I like light bondage/restraints, blindfold, being spanked, and much more... a lot is situational, and I will, of course, have more limits at first, but many restrictions will lessen as trust builds. ?

I want to hand control over, just relax and enjoy, with out having to think or stress anything.

I need somebody sincere, patient and both willing and able?to either mentor or learn with me.

I don't enjoy crudity or humiliation.

Right now, I don't know my likes and dislikes all that well, but am trying to learn and figure things out as I go. ?

I am willing to try almost anything twice unless it will leave visible marks/bruising (or unsanitary) - have tried a few things, but haven't actually done anything beyond the basic. ?

Discreet is a must. ?

I don't like cruel, vulgar, needy, whiny, or obtuse people. While I don't get out and actually do much anymore, I am a true "tomboy" at heart, and would love to find somebody willing to spend time together having fun, doing some sort of activity (preferably outdoors - I like camping, hiking, fishing, etc. I also enjoy playing and watching most sports), maybe work out together, or just relax, goof off a little and have a good time doing nothing at all.
I really want one person that I click with, that is okay with only seeing each other occasionally.

If you think we might be well suited, by all means let me know, but be sincere and upfront about what you want and expect, I'm willing to work with you, as long as I know the deal up front... and no worries, if we don't click say so and we can just move on or be friend ... no hard feelings.

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