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Male Submissive, 33, london
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About gsubmissive2
I’m looking for a Domme to physically interact with.
I have about 6-7 years’ experience as a submissive mainly with professional Dommes all of whom have taught me very much about domination and submission.
Submission is very much about a form of sexuality and intimacy with a woman I appreciate so it has never been ideal to have to bring money into the equation; but for the most part I have only been able to actively be submissive by engaging with professional Dommes, which is very often a difficult balance but one I have tried to achieve - I have wanted to engage somehow.
If You try to take £800 a month from me, ask me to take out credit cards to buy you shopping and furniture, interact with me the minimum you can and turn out to be married and engaging with me in your family home without letting me know whether your husband knows or not; then you may be surprised to find that no matter how beautiful You are and how much I like You I will try as best I can to change the dynamic, and if that does not work I will try not to engage with You anymore – regardless of how much I like You. Unfortunately I have had to have that kind of a strong resolve with a Domme I liked very much before. I don’t really want to ever find myself in such a situation again.
Some Dommes call resisting such treatment of submissives topping from the bottom – I call it not being a mug and letting yourself be utterly exploited. This is not and never has been my understanding of what Domination is, if the above example of what I call exploitation is in tune with what you think domination is, respectfully our ideals do not agree.
Balance I think is all important, no-one likes being used and abused or disrespected, not the Domme nor the sub, and when either side loses respect for the other, a dynamic breaks down.
I will take pain for a Domme, I will worship a Domme, I will help a Domme in Her life financially if necessary ; but this has to be balanced with the reality of life – my being a submissive is a not a dinner ticket for a woman I like and appreciate to utterly exploit me and call it domination: to do such a thing is not loving, intimate or in any way special – it is desperate, empty and devoid of all that D/s should be and will destroy the most beautiful of dynamics. I have no interest in such engagements.
What I do have an interest in is getting to know a lady with true dominant tendencies who does not view submissives as fair game for exploitation, but who has a genuine interest in really physically engaging in order to fulfil that side of her life with a male who has a nature that complements her own. I’m happy to work with a lady to improve her life on many levels, but as a submissive I have found (unfortunately) that I have had to be careful of situations where a Domme’s ultimate aim is relentless exploitation and one only has to glance around the scene to see that, unfortunately, the BDSM world is replete with people looking to exploit others (on both sides).
I will do what I can to interact with another and I know enough about life to know there is no ideal situation and I’m certainly not perfect myself, I know that full well; but that interaction needs to be balanced on both sides with respect to both people’s lives and both people’s imperfections – then I think it is possible to really start enjoying each other’s time and company and experience, to enjoy the freedom which comes from truly voluntary, respectful interaction – however that has been agreed between the two parties.
Thank you for reading. |
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