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tsashlyn
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Thank you for your interest, please take the time to read through my profile.
I've been involved with various aspects of the BDSM lifestyle for over a decade, but have always been left wanting more. I won't lie, I've been burned quite a few times over the years and I've also walked away from what could've been amazing lives because I wasn't ready to make the commitment I yearned for or found out that the offer was only a silver lining. Because of my experiences I have a little bit of a chip on my shoulder as a defense mechanism.
I am searching for the real subculture of BDSM, the high class culture that exists in the shadows of the public kinky sex aspect. I am not searching for any kind of abuse for the sake of abuse. Discipline has a very real purpose if applied properly. I am not trying to find a way to have sex with some pain attached to it. I am looking for a true and respectable submissive life. This sounds at odds with what being a submissive is all about, but there are a few out there that understand and it is you, Master or Mistress, that I am searching for.
My submissiveness and devotion was sewn into me at a very young age and then cultivated for over a decade. I have been raised since childhood to live submissively and please my superiors. This foundation was cast so strongly in me that not even military could crack it. Yes, I have spent time in the military and thrived in the strictest and most mentally and physically challenging of environments. I will bend over backwards and go to the ends of the earth to do so. I will love you with all my being, trust in you explicitly, and devote myself completely. The relationship I am seeking is based on love, encouragement, and respect, not beatings and fear. It is part of my very essence now as a slow burning fire that once stoked properly burns as bright as stars.
I am aware that I sound snobbish, but believe me, I am rarely qualified for submissive life. I am not a doormat or push over, but I do not see this as insolence, but rather the will and ability to defend my master to the best of my ability. I am usually very passive about my core values and beliefs, but I wanted to reach a select audience with this profile. I will talk openly, honestly, and cordially about 99% of my life. I will only maintain enough privacy to protect my anonymity until finding my life with a wonderful master or mistress.
Thank you for reading the entirety of my profile, please email me if you wish to know more about me or want to discuss the culture of BDSM.
Please note: "Willing to relocate" means within my current area so that I don't have to quit my day job. I am open to the idea of moving in to provide for closer to 24/7 time.
One final note; I'm transgendered. It's marked in my profile. I'm not "some dude," sissy, or crossdresser and if you think that, then you can take your ignorance somewhere else. I am not looking to be feminised by you or anyone. I plan on remedying the situation between my legs as soon as I'm able to. My picture is me. I didn't steal it from some website. Now, I respect that trans people aren't everyone's cup of tea, but that isn't a warrant to be a total ass when you figure out I'm trans. I get enough shit for being who I am from the rest of the world, I don't deserve it from the people on this site.
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And I now understand why everyone's gotta hate.
Set my search for everyone instead of just dominants. Wow. The plethora of WTF on here is astounding. |
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Everybody's gotta hate... |
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New rule:
If you're married and your spouse doesn't know about your kink side, stay away.
If you both engage in bdsm together, drop me a line. |
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Taken out of my profile text...
The short version:
Ignorant people bug me.
To put say it bluntly... Get to know me first before demanding something. Be real, don't make shit up just to get out of meeting me, and don't walk around with an attitude that the world owes you something; it doesn't. In fact, you most definitely owe the world some kind of service no matter who you are. Lastly, to get respect you have to show respect. If you don't understand that then you don't deserve the sub or Master you seek. Hey, I'm just a normal tgirl, smart, fun, witty, and a bit shy. I'm looking for friends and more. Mostly, just like to hang out, get coffee, go to movies, and of course, shopping. On the kink side, I'm a switch, I like to have fun beyond the vanilla missionary blah blah blah. For all would-be prospects, if you're out of place in a "casual attire" setting, don't bother me. If you don't know what "casual attire" means, look it up and then don't bother me.
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Right now all I'm interested in is good and intelligent conversation about bdsm. |
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People need to learn the difference between kinky sex and BDSM. One spices up the bedroom. The other is a completely different world, not a lifestyle. |
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Officially single.
Ef you all.
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Is it just me or are a lot of Doms here really needy? |
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| Age: 29 |
| Engels,
Russia |
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