growingpig

You bare yourself for rejection

 Hoping and trusting I won't

Or recreate the emotional intensity...

You are terrified of how vulnerable that leaves you,  and that without it you are of much less worth

The very act of choosing to unravel you 

 You're here,  and exposing yourself,  lowering boundaries

Explanation of my profile name:

You know how you work out for the day, do the crunches, feel that sweat, and then at the end of the night you just crave that cheesecake, knowing it will negate that days work?..........And then you know how you dress for style, showing confidence and security, dignity, and then at the end of the night, you just must read this mail, feel compelled to answer, feel deeply of different status??

That was the the meaning of the profile name, at least originally. I am curvy, at worst. But i still feel compelled to answer.