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	My profile - take II A lot of girls give a long list of what they want. I don't expect anyone to measure up to my expectations. I do expect them to be themselves. So maybe it would be a better to make a list of what I don't want. -- a one night stand -- an online "relationship" -- to clean your kitchen before I cook you dinner on the first date ;) Okay, so the last one seems a little far fetched, but don't discount the expectations of a dabbler ;) I've been called a masochist, but there are sadists who would disagree. I've been called a slave but there are Dominants who would disagree. What that has taught me is that levels should be defined by individuals. I'm not emotionally tied to referring to myself, or the man I'm with, by any specific terms. I am hoping to find someone who will draw me in so much that my heart's desire is not to submit, but to submit to HIM. So if I've piqued your interest, I'd like to hear from you. Please note, I realize not everyone wants to post their picture onto the site directly and I respect that. However, please attach one to your email. While physical attraction is not the only aspect of a connection, it is definitely ONE aspect and cannot be overlooked. No picture = no response

5/26/2008 9:26:22 AM

You know what would be awesome to find here? The one? Sure - maybe, but that's not truly the goal. I would be thrilled to find a mentor/best friend in the lifestyle. Ideally he would be a Dom off of whom I could bounce ideas or with whom I could share my thoughts as I travel this path of self-awareness. He could ask me why women are so insane and get real answers without the stigma of dancing around and sugar coating topics because we were trying to impress one another. Should you be this open with your partner? Of course - but how many really are? And until that one comes along, with whom trust knows no bounds, we'd have each other to learn from.

5/17/2008 10:07:01 AM

I am not the type to lose faith. So far, I've met some very interesting people with diverse interests. To date though, none that were a match. A couple of things to note. While I'm not trying to top or be the dominant, I have my standards and rules as well and hope that you can respect them. First of all, please send a picture if you don't have one attached to your profile. I don't want to get involved in dialogue for several weeks only to find out that we're not the least bit attracted to one another. Secondly, if you're involved in a vanilla relationship and this is your diversion, I won't judge you. So just be honest about it. You never know.