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GrayMustache

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GrayMustache - Male Dominant, Sacramento California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About GrayMustache


Dom/Master seeking Very Spirited Sub/Slave. I am not new to the ways of BDSM. I know what I want and strive to meet the needs of my partner. Master is a title that must be earned… I find spirit and intelligence in a woman very sexy and chemistry important, so I am looking for someone close to my own age. Unlike others, I do not wish to break my spirited partner. Quite the contrary, I want to nurture that spirit, but I’m dominant so if ALL your friends and family call you a brat, we probably won’t work out.

I want a connection. Can’t classify myself as poly or monogamous. I have included occasional play partners to fulfill my partner’s fantasies. My soul mate will understand my not sharing myself or her with just anyone. That said, if my partner occasionally craves a woman, how could I meet that need...

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Someone just asked me about the dragon pendant. It’s a bit of a long story... Several years ago when I got divorced I moved from the suburbs in Seattle downtown to the International District (Chinatown). I had never lived in the city and felt I wanted the change. I enjoyed the area and became immersed in its Asian cultures. Dragons, in Asian cultures, traditionally symbolize very potent powers; among others, control over water, rain, floods and hurricane. They were often used by the Emperors to symbolize Power, strength, and protection.

Not long after the move I lost my father to cancer. Power, strength and protection described my Dad’s role in the family perfectly. I was drawn to the dragon as a symbol and reminder of Dad. I have tried to fill his role in the family and in my relationships. Later in the year of the Dragon, the silver dragon pictured was presented to me by a dear friend. I wear it daily to remind me to care for the ones I love and I subsequently got a tattoo of its likeness done on my shoulder.

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We don't stop playing because we've grown old but grow old because we stop playing! I prefer dynamic play that doesn't follow conventional rules of engagement. (Not much of a protocol guy.) Please… not too serious; I love to laugh! I tend to prefer partners within 10 years of my own age and sexual chemistry is a must, as play is inextricably intertwined with sex for me. For me, BDSM is a very sexual experience. It's intimate foreplay, it's rough and passionate sex! I will consider us two Love Outlaws who refuse to buy into what we are fed through family, society, or religion.

Now for the fun part; I like long play sessions, (3-4 hours or more), experimentation and adventure in bed. I like touching and tenderness (touch your arm, rub your back, run our hands through your hair), but also like a strong mix of pleasure and passion; lots of it! I enjoy bondage. I like the control. I enjoy giving a partner what they need or desire but always with a twist or curve she wasn't expecting; erotic spankings, and did I say lots of experimentation! I love giving forced orgasms; giving oral or playing with you until you’re begging me to stop, then can't even beg anymore.

Play is sometimes Primal. Think of your animal nature; Biting, Pursuit, Takedown and Capture, Scratching, Rutting Animalistic Sex... That given, I’m not abusive so if you want someone to seriously beat and bruise you, I’m not him. I enjoy feeling alive and the instincts that drive our inner nature...Think in terms of big cats mating!

A favorite thing: Totally Naked Sundays, which usually involves lounging, and can include some Chandon Blanc De Noirs, Strawberries, and Chocolate!


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Favorite Quotes!

The Devoted Lover: 55% partner focus, 29% aggressiveness, 40% adventurousness... (Math was never my strong suit). Unknown

Often in a woman's most shameful fantasies does she find the greatest intimacy.
Unknown

Between two evils, I always pick the one I never tried before.
Mae West

“Drink wine. This is life eternal. This is all that youth will give you. It is the season for wine, roses and drunken friends. Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life.”
Omar Khayyám (Rubaiyat)

“The truth is, everybody is going to hurt you. You just gotta find the ones worth suffering for."
- Bob Marley

"There are two kinds of strengths: the strength to lead, and the strength to follow; the strength to control, and the strength yield. There are two kinds of power: the power to strip away another's soul bare, and the power to stand naked." - Yaldah Tovah

T-E-M-P-T-A-T-I-O-N!
THE TROUBLE WITH RESISTING TEMPTATION IS YOU MAY NEVER GET ANOTHER CHANCE!~UNKNOWN

"I knew I shoulda taken that left turn at Albuquerque!!!"
~Bugs Bunny



4/21/11  I have heard a lot about Burning Man and wonder if there are members in Seattle who could tell me more!

 

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