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* I wont intiate any form of contact with anyone, if you want to contact me please feel free, *
About me.....
SINGLE FEMALE
I DONT SHARE MY MEN
FRIENDLY BUT FAR FAR FROM GULLABLE
~~~~time for a rewrite already!!!~~~~~
It would appear I'm not any good at profiles!
Im a 30 something woman with a very strong mind, my submission is deep and raw but hidden from daily life, I do not want any contact from the kneel bitch brigade or those who call me sub or slave !..Im neither to you.
I have been in BDSM for over 10 years, From this I have learnt what it is I need,
One night stands or irregular play sessions dont do a thing for me, Im wandering on here for the hope of meeting someone who is genuine and after the same thing.
There are plenty of subs out there that will play as and when, I prefer to engage in conversation , meet up fairly early on and watch it develop. I have NO interest in being one of many or a secret.
BDSM and the dynamic to me a crucial for me and need to be equally balanced from both sides, to get the trust and respect I need to know you are on the level. YES I have been fooled before!!!
Im ideally looking at no more than 10 years older than me or less than 5 below me.
Im complex but very deep, shy yet very approcahable,
Im not bi , into Tvs or men with any element of being attached. I work and expect ~him~ to aswell as Im not going to keep you!..I have a child and work , life is fun....
There is just something mssing, any BDSM related questions you have will only be answered IF I feel comfortable about telling you!
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as I sit and ponder the complexities within the realm of BDSM I'm not amused by time wasting idiots and those that can't read a profile...let a lone the ones who seem to feel that because I'm a free thinking woman when not engaged in BDSM, that I can not have a submissive bone in my body!
How do they know..I don't let them "see" that side of me!
To me that side comes out when it is happy within a compatability ...
If I wanted a quick kinky sex session I would not be looking for like minded people within BDSM sites...I'd be looking about for kinky sex operatives!!
To me submission isnt an add on nor is it a play act...its a well hidden side in my nilla life that flourishs with the hand of a confident Dominant ...A side that is eeked out from the walls I hide it so protectively within.
Its not here for fun nor for abuse...but to grow and become all it was..and all it can be once more.
bloody nora that was poetic of me!..well almost!
oh yeah....I have a sense of humour also! |
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I did laugh at a reply in recieved giving me abuse because I hadnt logged on for a few days....Hell how dare I have a life!...ill spend my time doing what I please thank you very much!
Sadly getting emails still requesting me to Dom them and "i'm married but my wife knows"....Well good for her!...however I want to be SOMEBODY not ANYBODY, I do not fit into the share my men group in anyway shape of form.
Trust is one of my highest priorities, I dont jump about and get jiggy on intial dates, im a slow and wait for it girl...Theres no respect on either side if its rushed and worthless.
Maybe this place doesnt hold like minded folk afterall!!!!
*not that I am becoming jaded or anything ;) |
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Im already alarmed at some of the replies I have recieved.LOLI shouldnt be as I have been on this site before a few months ago to which i deleted as I felt I was only being played, It would appear somethings are not changing!Is it such a hard place to find really Dominant people around rather than the kinky sex men?Nothing wrong in kinky sex but I need more than that!...I need the expectations laid out yet within that feel cared for and cherished rather than pushing myself to please to find as soon as possible already being marked out of 10 as the next one is lined up, but still kept inline "just in case"...that is NOT BDSM!!For any Dominant man to actually Dominate me he really has to know me, that comes from chating sharing time together and discussing nilla life as much as anything, I cant submit to a Dom who doesnt even know what my favourite band is today!!.Nor can I submit to a man who I know nothing of, Relationships are founded and established on openly trusting each other inially and growing together.If I want a quick lay, theres a bloke in my local I can ring, If I want a bit of slap and tickle he would also accomdate!!..BUT that is so very far removed from what I want need and who I am.Im sensual, dark, open to so many elements ..I dont take control from my Dom , He does that, He needs to be mentally and physically strong. I dont give lightly , I give my all....and that I expect backIf thats too mcuh to ask for these days....Where will we be in 10 years time! |
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