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well! 346 emails after less than 48 hours. and now come the complaints because i deleted far more than i responded to...if i deleted your email it is for one of the following reasons:

1) you are a submissive asking me if i would consider dominating them - clearly you have no idea what submission really is - steer clear of me

2) i recieved a "form" letter - after 300++ it was easy to tell which was which - but yes i did open each email i got. also, the "by now your inbox is flooded, but when you weed the trolls out you will find Me" emails are still recognizable as "form" emails

3) Your email suggested that i knew nothing about submission and that You would teach me how to "truly" submit. this completely disregards the fact that i was collared for 3 years in a TPE situation. please don't let whatever experience You have negate that

4)You emailed me with an extremely long explanation of what submission was, and how You are gentle and sweet and would never harm me.... see below for what i seek in a Dom.

5) something about Your profile/picture/email turned me off or upset me.

6) you only wanted to know what separated me from my previous Master, and when i explained you belittled Him when the situation (which i no longer care to explain until i choose to) was clearly out of His control and i harbor no ill feelings

i know this sounds bitchy and harsh, but it's disheartening and can be frustrating to be treated as a novice when i certainly have valid and thorough experience.

i've only just recently discovered this type of online community, but i've been involved in the lifestyle since i turned 19. i was collared for 3 years, but lost my master to a very sticky family situation. currently i'm single and would love to find someone new, but i'm not going to jump into a new relationship without exploring all of the possibilities out there - and there are so many!!

more specifics, since they are clearly needed....

i am not seeking the "loving explore your vanilla side" Dom. the Dom i seek is not a person who wants to do nothing more than stroke my hair and cuddle, but Someone who understands my need for direction and who sees the link between pleasure, punishment, and pain. i've recieved emails from many Doms who say that they have "no interest in causing physical pain", and i'm sorry to say that i have no interest in that sort of Dom. in many aspects of my life i am more of a slave than a sub, but i still dance that fine line in between. i am certainly interested in discovering more about the slave lifestyle.

i realize that i look young and that i look especially naive, but i assure you i am not a starry eyed virgin looking for someone to gently "make me a woman"

i am interested in poly relationships, but the idea of serving an established couple rarely appeals to me.

i'd love to get to know you better, and if after all of this You still think You'd like to get to know me please drop me a message :)

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HotSandra15
 
 Age: 28
 Philadelphia, Pennsylvania